Just taking a moment to point you to the results of a survey Paul and Lori Byerly recently did on oral sex. You can find their post here.
Their post may be a good conversation starter with your beloved regarding this somewhat sensitive topic.
If you want to read more on the topic, here are other posts to consider…
Is it Reasonable to Say “No” to Oral Sex?
Enough with the Double Standards about Oral Sex
An Important Follow-Up on the Oral Sex Post
Pulling Back the Sheets: Genuine Dialogue Among Christians About Oral Sex
And insights from Mrs. Hot Holy Humorous…
Oral Sex: How To
Oral Sex: Better to Give and Receive, Volume 1
Oral Sex: Better to Give and Receive, Part Deux
And from a Grown Up Marriage…
Oral Sex, Leftovers and Development
I know I have other Christian blogger friends who have written about it (and maybe even some of you readers know of other Christian posts on the subject). If you know of other links, please tell me and I’ll try to get them added to the page.
A big shout out to any blogger, author or speaker who tries to authentically address the matter of oral sex for married couples.
I know this is a topic that sometimes makes Christians uncomfortable.
In some marriages, though, it is a source of conflict, an unspoken desire or simply a bewildering territory that husbands and wives just don’t know how to discuss.
At any rate, I’m just trying to do my part to shed some light.
Copyright 2012, Julie Sibert. Intimacy in Marriage Blog.