Is It Reasonable to Say “No” to Oral Sex?

Posted on Saturday, December 31st, 2011

Years ago, a friend and I were talking in general about sex. In the course of our conversation, the topic of oral sex came up.

I casually mentioned, “What’s not to like about oral sex?”

“Giving or receiving?” she asked.

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An Important Follow Up on the Oral Sex Post

Posted on Monday, December 6th, 2010

The other day, I ran a post titled Enough With the Double Standards Regarding Oral Sex. Comments I received on that post from Paul (of The Generous Husband fame) and Lusanda shed light on a very valid point:

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Enough With the Double Standards Regarding Oral Sex

Posted on Friday, December 3rd, 2010

As anyone who has followed my blog will know, I am a big proponent of married couples nurturing their sexual intimacy. I’ve written about oral sex before, simply because it is indeed a source of contention within many marriages (maybe even more so among Christian married couples).

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Pulling Back the Sheets: Genuine Dialogue Among Christians about Oral S.ex

Posted on Thursday, September 9th, 2010

Here’s a question. When was the last time you were in your small group or out to breakfast after church, and someone casually offered up this as a conversation starter: “What do you all think about oral sex?” Let me guess. Never, right?

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