Is It Reasonable to Say “No” to Oral Sex?
Posted on Saturday, December 31st, 2011
Years ago, a friend and I were talking in general about sex. In the course of our conversation, the topic of oral sex came up.
I casually mentioned, “What’s not to like about oral sex?”
“Giving or receiving?” she asked.
continue readingAn Important Follow Up on the Oral Sex Post
Posted on Monday, December 6th, 2010
The other day, I ran a post titled Enough With the Double Standards Regarding Oral Sex. Comments I received on that post from Paul (of The Generous Husband fame) and Lusanda shed light on a very valid point:
continue readingEnough With the Double Standards Regarding Oral Sex
Posted on Friday, December 3rd, 2010
As anyone who has followed my blog will know, I am a big proponent of married couples nurturing their sexual intimacy. I’ve written about oral sex before, simply because it is indeed a source of contention within many marriages (maybe even more so among Christian married couples).
continue readingPulling Back the Sheets: Genuine Dialogue Among Christians about Oral S.ex
Posted on Thursday, September 9th, 2010
Here’s a question. When was the last time you were in your small group or out to breakfast after church, and someone casually offered up this as a conversation starter: “What do you all think about oral sex?” Let me guess. Never, right?
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