3 Secrets to Amazing Oral Sex

Posted on Saturday, October 18th, 2014

 
I remember years ago having lunch with a friend and we were talking about sex in general — and oral sex in particular.
“What’s not to like about oral sex?!” I said rather emphatically, more as [...]

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5 Worst Excuses for Not Having Sex

Posted on Thursday, October 16th, 2014

 
Do you make excuses for not having sex with your husband?
I ask that question with a humble heart that has a passion for encouraging women in this area of their marriage.
Some wives are making excuses. [...]

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Have You Seen These Photos? What Do They Tell Us?

Posted on Wednesday, October 15th, 2014

 
Making the rounds on social media is a group of yearly photos taken of four sisters over 40 years from 1975 to 2014.
You can read the story of the photos and see them at this link.  If [...]

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Being “In the Mood” is a Poor Gauge for Deciding to Have Sex

Posted on Tuesday, October 14th, 2014

 
Do you wait until you are “in the mood” to have sex?
Are you doing a lot of waiting and very little lovemaking?
Being in the mood to have sex is not the best way to sustain intimacy in [...]

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Will the Sexy New Viagra Commercial Help More Marriages?

Posted on Wednesday, October 8th, 2014

 
There I was, just enjoying some post-season major league baseball, and what pops on my TV screen?
A sexy viagra commercial.
Have you seen it?
(I would show it here, but it is a little risqué — not by [...]

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Marriage is Easy. Said No One Ever.

Posted on Friday, October 3rd, 2014

 
Ok, I have met a few people who think marriage is easy.
But those conversations are rare.  Count-on-one-hand-and-still-have-fingers-left rare.
Most people I meet who are willing to get vulnerable reveal something that tends to be more universal [...]

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Emotionally Destructive Marriages and What You Need to Know

Posted on Thursday, September 18th, 2014

Oh. My.
Every now and then, I come across something that speaks so clearly on a topic that is craving — craving — more clarity.
I recently watched the below webinar with Leslie Vernick and Chris Moles. For quite [...]

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5 Ways We’ve Complicated Sex and Marriage

Posted on Thursday, July 24th, 2014

I hear a lot of heartache and trainwreck in the emails I get.
It debilitates me and motivates me at the same time.
And though each marriage is unique — and the sexual challenges therein are unique [...]

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A Talk I Did About Sex…

Posted on Sunday, July 20th, 2014

 
A few years ago, my good friend Kristen asked me to speak to her women’s Bible study about sexual intimacy in marriage.
During the talk, I vulnerably share my testimony as to why I am passionate [...]

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Where Great Sex is Hiding…

Posted on Tuesday, July 15th, 2014

I have forgotten nearly every wedding I’ve attended.
Including my own. (And it was a mere 11 years ago).
Sure, I remember snippets here and there; moments that stand out.
A particularly mischievous ring bearer.
A humorous speech at the reception.
Or [...]

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