Fifty Shades of Great Sex with Your Husband

Posted on Monday, April 30th, 2012

The book Fifty Shades of Grey is climbing the publishing charts, further propelling the phenomenon of erotica gone mainstream.

I should start with the disclaimer that I have not read the book.

Don’t need to.

Have no desire to.

Do You Embrace Being Called Your Husband’s Wife?

Posted on Saturday, April 7th, 2012

I was thinking about how such identity markers can stir either positive or negative feelings in us, particularly when it comes to those relationships that are closest to us. Those are the relationships that carry the greatest costs — and the greatest rewards, so to speak.

What Can You Learn From Other Marriages?

Posted on Friday, April 6th, 2012

One of my regular gigs is speaking on abstinence to teenagers.

I always ask the teens, “How many of you have seen bad marriages?”

Nearly all the hands go up.

Then I ask, “How many of you have seen good marriages?”

Get Stripped Down for FREE. It’s a Book People.

Posted on Thursday, April 5th, 2012

Today is your lucky day.

My fellow marriage advocates Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo are offering the Kindle version of their book Stripped Down FREE for TODAY ONLY (April 5, 2012).

Two Wives. Talking About Masturbation.

Posted on Sunday, October 16th, 2011

Yes, I’m going to go there.

I’m going to talk about masturbation.

Not because I’m in a bit of a drought when it comes to hate mail, but because it is a valid issue worth discussing with regard to sexual intimacy in marriage.

Want a Marla Taviano Book? For Free?

Posted on Monday, October 10th, 2011

Author and speaker Marla Taviano recently sent me copies of two of her books:

From Blushing Bride to Wedded Wife: Practical Advice from a Girlfriend — What Marriage is Really Like

Is That All He Thinks About: How to Enjoy Great Sex With Your Husband

And now I want to give them away (because they rock!)

Your Orgasm Is Your Responsibility (Mostly)

Posted on Tuesday, July 12th, 2011

Hollywood has screwed us up when it comes to sexual expectations.

First, we expect that great sex is always going to happen in the missionary position. Second, we think the man arrives with a wealth of accurate sexual knowledge about the female body.

(Look at me – I just wrote a love scene for the next romantic comedy blockbuster.)

Would You Marry a Former Porn Star?

Posted on Thursday, May 12th, 2011

Crissy Moran. I’m guessing you’ve never heard of her. Do me a favor — don’t google her name. I’m going to tell you what you really need to know about this woman and her amazing story of redemption.

PART TWO: The 10 Worst Mistakes You Can Make When Talking To Your Kids About Sex

Posted on Friday, May 6th, 2011

Occasionally, I suck at being a parent. Okay, not just occasionally, but that’s really not material to my point.

Why Special Occasion Sex Isn’t Enough

Posted on Monday, February 14th, 2011

Ahhh. Valentine’s Day. The day of love, right? For some married couples, it’s one of the few times of the year they will have sex. Do you see that dynamic playing itself out with your husband?