Two Wives. Talking About Masturbation.

Posted on Sunday, October 16th, 2011

Yes, I’m going to go there.

I’m going to talk about masturbation.

Not because I’m in a bit of a drought when it comes to hate mail, but because it is a valid issue worth discussing with regard to sexual intimacy in marriage.

Want a Marla Taviano Book? For Free?

Posted on Monday, October 10th, 2011

Author and speaker Marla Taviano recently sent me copies of two of her books:

From Blushing Bride to Wedded Wife: Practical Advice from a Girlfriend — What Marriage is Really Like

Is That All He Thinks About: How to Enjoy Great Sex With Your Husband

And now I want to give them away (because they rock!)

Your Orgasm Is Your Responsibility (Mostly)

Posted on Tuesday, July 12th, 2011

Hollywood has screwed us up when it comes to sexual expectations.

First, we expect that great sex is always going to happen in the missionary position. Second, we think the man arrives with a wealth of accurate sexual knowledge about the female body.

(Look at me – I just wrote a love scene for the next romantic comedy blockbuster.)

Would You Marry a Former Porn Star?

Posted on Thursday, May 12th, 2011

Crissy Moran. I’m guessing you’ve never heard of her. Do me a favor — don’t google her name. I’m going to tell you what you really need to know about this woman and her amazing story of redemption.

PART TWO: The 10 Worst Mistakes You Can Make When Talking To Your Kids About Sex

Posted on Friday, May 6th, 2011

Occasionally, I suck at being a parent. Okay, not just occasionally, but that’s really not material to my point.

Why Special Occasion Sex Isn’t Enough

Posted on Monday, February 14th, 2011

Ahhh. Valentine’s Day. The day of love, right? For some married couples, it’s one of the few times of the year they will have sex. Do you see that dynamic playing itself out with your husband?

Sexual Intimacy: My Love Letter to Pornographers

Posted on Thursday, January 13th, 2011

Obviously, my point with this post will be clear as you read between the lines. Just in case you think I’ve lost my mind, don’t bail on me. You will be glad you read all the way to the end.

5 Reasons “Faking It” Is Hurting Your Relationship

Posted on Thursday, January 6th, 2011

Who can possibly forget the restuarant scene in the 1989 movie When Harry Met Sally? If the link I just gave you doesn’t work, search “Best Fake Orgasm Ever” on YouTube. I’m old enough to have seen this movie in the theatre and can still remember it vividly in regard to sexual intimacy. Not bad for a scene where everyone has their clothes on.

Does this Blog Make Me Look Hot?

Posted on Monday, January 3rd, 2011

Ahh. A new year. When you think of sexual intimacy in your marriage in the upcoming year, what emotions stir within you? Anticipation? Excitement? Dread? Are you wanting things to look different — maybe even better?

3 Reasons Your Husband Likes It When You Climax

Posted on Thursday, December 23rd, 2010

A recent email from a male reader drew my attention to something that may be off the radar of many wives. Husbands — at least most and definitely the unselfish ones — truly enjoy it when their wives have an orgasm.