Where Great Sex is Hiding…

Posted on Tuesday, July 15th, 2014

I have forgotten nearly every wedding I’ve attended.
Including my own. (And it was a mere 11 years ago).
Sure, I remember snippets here and there; moments that stand out.
A particularly mischievous ring bearer.
A humorous speech at the reception.
Or [...]

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3 Reasons I Haven’t Blogged in a Long Time (#3 Tops Them All)

Posted on Sunday, July 13th, 2014

I know.
It’s been awhile.
Probably the longest I’ve gone without blogging since I started.
The irony is not lost on me that I made this insanely-optimistic proclamation early in the year that maybe I would blog EVERY [...]

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Extraordinary Sex in Your Ordinary Life

Posted on Thursday, May 15th, 2014

I’ve always felt painfully average.
When Jesus says the first will be last and the last will be first, I figure… ehh… I’ll probably be right in the middle somewhere.
And by most accounts, my life is, [...]

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Keep Me in the Dark Please

Posted on Wednesday, April 23rd, 2014

My husband and I were talking about something the other day, but it wasn’t really a good time to talk.
He had some time-sensitive stuff he had to get done and we had kid activities creeping [...]

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3 Things Sex Tells Us About the Lord

Posted on Saturday, April 5th, 2014

I have a doctor friend who says she never grows weary of studying the human body.
“It’s just so fascinating,” she said to me once, even after having spent months and years trudging through the grueling [...]

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5 Reasons the Church Won’t Talk Authentically About Sex

Posted on Thursday, February 20th, 2014

I usually see one of two looks on people’s faces when I say I am a Christian wife who speaks and writes about sex in marriage.
Either they become nervous and want to change the subject.
Or [...]

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Sochi and Sex: 5 Reasons Details Matter

Posted on Thursday, February 13th, 2014

Like many people, I’ve been watching the 2014 Winter Olympics in Sochi.
And, of course, I got to thinking about sex in marriage.
There’s been so much commentary about important details that seem to not be quite [...]

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Is It Sexy Being a Mrs? Well, If You Ask Me…

Posted on Friday, January 24th, 2014

Mrs. Randall Sibert
That’s how my husband’s aunt addressed the card she sent me for my birthday today.
Mrs. Randall Sibert
Such a greeting scrolled across an envelope alludes to a different era, doesn’t it?  I miss that [...]

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Is Ministry Destroying Sex with Your Spouse?

Posted on Saturday, January 4th, 2014

What is your ministry?
Helping with children’s programs?
Planning Vacation Bible School?
Leading women’s Bible study?
Feeding the homeless?
Helping immigrants adjust to life in the U.S.?
Serving on the church board?
Collecting clothing for those who are less fortunate?
Evangelizing to a [...]

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54 Sexy Ways to Strengthen Your Marriage in 2014

Posted on Saturday, December 28th, 2013

I believe that as long as we are married, we never stop learning how to be married.
It’s a process.
It’s a journey.
It’s winding roads and crappy terrain and scenic overlooks and dark alleys and hairpin turns.
It’s [...]

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