Are You Doing Your “Job” in Your Marriage?

Posted on Saturday, October 25th, 2014

 
I don’t really want to use Coach Jimbo Fisher and Florida State football as my lead in (in light of the controversy around quarterback Jameis Winston).
BUT Fisher’s post-game on-field interview after FSU’s win over Notre Dame really [...]

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5 Worst Excuses for Not Having Sex

Posted on Thursday, October 16th, 2014

 
Do you make excuses for not having sex with your husband?
I ask that question with a humble heart that has a passion for encouraging women in this area of their marriage.
Some wives are making excuses. [...]

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Being “In the Mood” is a Poor Gauge for Deciding to Have Sex

Posted on Tuesday, October 14th, 2014

 
Do you wait until you are “in the mood” to have sex?
Are you doing a lot of waiting and very little lovemaking?
Being in the mood to have sex is not the best way to sustain intimacy in [...]

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Marriage is Easy. Said No One Ever.

Posted on Friday, October 3rd, 2014

 
Ok, I have met a few people who think marriage is easy.
But those conversations are rare.  Count-on-one-hand-and-still-have-fingers-left rare.
Most people I meet who are willing to get vulnerable reveal something that tends to be more universal [...]

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5 Ways We’ve Complicated Sex and Marriage

Posted on Thursday, July 24th, 2014

I hear a lot of heartache and trainwreck in the emails I get.
It debilitates me and motivates me at the same time.
And though each marriage is unique — and the sexual challenges therein are unique [...]

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A Talk I Did About Sex…

Posted on Sunday, July 20th, 2014

 
A few years ago, my good friend Kristen asked me to speak to her women’s Bible study about sexual intimacy in marriage.
During the talk, I vulnerably share my testimony as to why I am passionate [...]

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Where Great Sex is Hiding…

Posted on Tuesday, July 15th, 2014

I have forgotten nearly every wedding I’ve attended.
Including my own. (And it was a mere 11 years ago).
Sure, I remember snippets here and there; moments that stand out.
A particularly mischievous ring bearer.
A humorous speech at the reception.
Or [...]

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3 Things Your Husband Wants in Bed

Posted on Tuesday, May 20th, 2014

I realize some husbands are insensitive and walking way outside God’s lines with some of their sexual requests.  And that’s just plain wrong.
So if you are reading this and you’re that guy… stop it. Stop [...]

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Why Shaunti Feldhahn’s Books Should be Required Reading (Oh, and I’m Giving Some Copies Away)

Posted on Thursday, May 15th, 2014

*** UPDATE ***  Congrats to Rachel from Australia who was the winner I drew to receive the books!  Even though the drawing is over, still read the below post!  The books are awesome and a great [...]

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Audio Version of My Sex Book: You Could Win a Copy

Posted on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014

***UPDATE***   I did draw three winners from the comments submitted on May 5.  One hasn’t responded to my email, though, so I may draw another one soon if I don’t hear from her.  CONGRATS [...]

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