3 Things Sex Tells Us About the Lord

Posted on Saturday, April 5th, 2014

I have a doctor friend who says she never grows weary of studying the human body.
“It’s just so fascinating,” she said to me once, even after having spent months and years trudging through the grueling [...]

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Sex Savvy Wives: Learning the Power of Pleasure

Posted on Thursday, March 6th, 2014

I am thrilled to have recently interviewed my wildly funny and insightful friend J of Hot Holy Humorous fame on her new book, Sex Savvy: A Lovemaking Guide for Christian Wives.
Like me, she’s a Christian [...]

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5 Reasons the Church Won’t Talk Authentically About Sex

Posted on Thursday, February 20th, 2014

I usually see one of two looks on people’s faces when I say I am a Christian wife who speaks and writes about sex in marriage.
Either they become nervous and want to change the subject.
Or [...]

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Sochi and Sex: 5 Reasons Details Matter

Posted on Thursday, February 13th, 2014

Like many people, I’ve been watching the 2014 Winter Olympics in Sochi.
And, of course, I got to thinking about sex in marriage.
There’s been so much commentary about important details that seem to not be quite [...]

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Radio Interview on Sex in Marriage and Sexual Brokenness

Posted on Wednesday, February 12th, 2014

Just wanted to let you know that Penny Bragg of Inverse Ministries will be doing a radio interview with me Thursday, 2/13, at 10:30 a.m. Eastern on WAPN Radio.
We’ll be talking about sexual intimacy in [...]

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He Wants Sex to Be Fun. You Just Want it to be Over.

Posted on Tuesday, February 4th, 2014

I received a comment the other day from a husband sharing about the lack of sexual intimacy in his marriage.
He made an observation that I think prevails in many marriages regarding sex:
“Many husbands want to [...]

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This Video Could Change Your Marriage

Posted on Wednesday, January 15th, 2014

What jump starts real breakthrough in sexual intimacy struggles?
Sometimes it’s when we hear the vulnerable journey of someone else who has struggled — and moved beyond that place of feeling stuck and hopeless.
That is why I [...]

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5 Things I Tell Young Wives About SEX

Posted on Thursday, January 9th, 2014

When my sister-in-law was in the hospital in labor with my niece, I thought it would be an ideal time to show her (and everyone else in the room) the fabric I’d picked out for [...]

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Is Ministry Destroying Sex with Your Spouse?

Posted on Saturday, January 4th, 2014

What is your ministry?
Helping with children’s programs?
Planning Vacation Bible School?
Leading women’s Bible study?
Feeding the homeless?
Helping immigrants adjust to life in the U.S.?
Serving on the church board?
Collecting clothing for those who are less fortunate?
Evangelizing to a [...]

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Be His Porn Star? Here’s the Problem…

Posted on Friday, January 3rd, 2014

Occasionally, I receive comments that track along this line…
“Wives, you should be his porn star.”
While I get the idea behind such statement (at least I think I do), here’s the problem…
1. “Be his porn star…” [...]

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