5 Ways We’ve Complicated Sex and Marriage

Posted on Thursday, July 24th, 2014

I hear a lot of heartache and trainwreck in the emails I get.
It debilitates me and motivates me at the same time.
And though each marriage is unique — and the sexual challenges therein are unique [...]

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A Talk I Did About Sex…

Posted on Sunday, July 20th, 2014

 
A few years ago, my good friend Kristen asked me to speak to her women’s Bible study about sexual intimacy in marriage.
During the talk, I vulnerably share my testimony as to why I am passionate [...]

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Where Great Sex is Hiding…

Posted on Tuesday, July 15th, 2014

I have forgotten nearly every wedding I’ve attended.
Including my own. (And it was a mere 11 years ago).
Sure, I remember snippets here and there; moments that stand out.
A particularly mischievous ring bearer.
A humorous speech at the reception.
Or [...]

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3 Things Your Husband Wants in Bed

Posted on Tuesday, May 20th, 2014

I realize some husbands are insensitive and walking way outside God’s lines with some of their sexual requests.  And that’s just plain wrong.
So if you are reading this and you’re that guy… stop it. Stop [...]

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Why Shaunti Feldhahn’s Books Should be Required Reading (Oh, and I’m Giving Some Copies Away)

Posted on Thursday, May 15th, 2014

*** UPDATE ***  Congrats to Rachel from Australia who was the winner I drew to receive the books!  Even though the drawing is over, still read the below post!  The books are awesome and a great [...]

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Audio Version of My Sex Book: You Could Win a Copy

Posted on Wednesday, April 30th, 2014

***UPDATE***   I did draw three winners from the comments submitted on May 5.  One hasn’t responded to my email, though, so I may draw another one soon if I don’t hear from her.  CONGRATS [...]

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3 Things Sex Tells Us About the Lord

Posted on Saturday, April 5th, 2014

I have a doctor friend who says she never grows weary of studying the human body.
“It’s just so fascinating,” she said to me once, even after having spent months and years trudging through the grueling [...]

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Sex Savvy Wives: Learning the Power of Pleasure

Posted on Thursday, March 6th, 2014

I am thrilled to have recently interviewed my wildly funny and insightful friend J of Hot Holy Humorous fame on her new book, Sex Savvy: A Lovemaking Guide for Christian Wives.
Like me, she’s a Christian [...]

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5 Reasons the Church Won’t Talk Authentically About Sex

Posted on Thursday, February 20th, 2014

I usually see one of two looks on people’s faces when I say I am a Christian wife who speaks and writes about sex in marriage.
Either they become nervous and want to change the subject.
Or [...]

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Sochi and Sex: 5 Reasons Details Matter

Posted on Thursday, February 13th, 2014

Like many people, I’ve been watching the 2014 Winter Olympics in Sochi.
And, of course, I got to thinking about sex in marriage.
There’s been so much commentary about important details that seem to not be quite [...]

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