A Sex Video You Absolutely Must See
Posted on Saturday, November 26th, 2011
Every now and then, I come across a video that just amazes me.
Take a few minutes and watch this video of this young man, who proclaims truth about sexual healing with such clarity.
continue reading3 Things the Penn State Scandal is Ready to Give You
Posted on Thursday, November 10th, 2011
I’m not here to re-count the revelations surrounding Penn State and some of its coaches and administrators.
You’re a well-informed person.
continue readingGiving My Body to My Wife — One Husband’s Story
Posted on Friday, October 7th, 2011
Not long ago, I asked for readers’ stories with regard to struggles in sexual intimacy and how couples have found a path to healing.
Today’s story comes from a reader named Bob. I appreciate his vulnerability and transparency. It takes courage to share so openly. With that in mind, please read with a compassionate heart. Possibly you’ll see glimpses of your own marriage in his story.
Be sure to read all the way through, as Bob shares a powerful declaration he sent to his wife.
continue reading3 Things We Can Learn From Anthony Weiner About Sex
Posted on Thursday, June 9th, 2011
Sex is powerful.
Just ask Rep. Anthony Weiner (D-NY), a national politician whose recent (and apparently past) sexual indiscretions have landed him in a flurry of media attention (and probably a fair amount of devastation within his own home and circle of friends).
continue readingWould You Marry a Former Porn Star?
Posted on Thursday, May 12th, 2011
Crissy Moran. I’m guessing you’ve never heard of her. Do me a favor — don’t google her name. I’m going to tell you what you really need to know about this woman and her amazing story of redemption.
continue readingPART TWO: The 10 Worst Mistakes You Can Make When Talking To Your Kids About Sex
Posted on Friday, May 6th, 2011
Occasionally, I suck at being a parent. Okay, not just occasionally, but that’s really not material to my point.
continue readingSexual Intimacy: My Love Letter to Pornographers
Posted on Thursday, January 13th, 2011
Obviously, my point with this post will be clear as you read between the lines. Just in case you think I’ve lost my mind, don’t bail on me. You will be glad you read all the way to the end.
continue readingIntimacy Before Intimacy: How One Couple Restored Their Marriage After Infidelity
Posted on Tuesday, October 26th, 2010
Today’s post comes from Traylor Lovvorn. He and his wife Melody have an amazing story of marriage, divorce and re-marriage after the devastation of pornography addiction and infidelity. Their story, including the video, brought me to raw tears.
continue readingPulling Back the Sheets: Genuine Dialogue Among Christians about Oral S.ex
Posted on Thursday, September 9th, 2010
Here’s a question. When was the last time you were in your small group or out to breakfast after church, and someone casually offered up this as a conversation starter: “What do you all think about oral sex?” Let me guess. Never, right?
continue readingSex and the Soul of a Woman
Posted on Friday, June 11th, 2010
Recently I wrote a few posts on promiscuity — You Are Not Being Punished for Your Past Promiscuity and Are You Punishing Yourself or Your Spouse for Past Promiscuity.
Then I stumbled across a book I [...]






