5 Ways We’ve Complicated Sex and Marriage

Posted on Thursday, July 24th, 2014

I hear a lot of heartache and trainwreck in the emails I get.
It debilitates me and motivates me at the same time.
And though each marriage is unique — and the sexual challenges therein are unique [...]

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A Talk I Did About Sex…

Posted on Sunday, July 20th, 2014

 
A few years ago, my good friend Kristen asked me to speak to her women’s Bible study about sexual intimacy in marriage.
During the talk, I vulnerably share my testimony as to why I am passionate [...]

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3 Things Your Husband Wants in Bed

Posted on Tuesday, May 20th, 2014

I realize some husbands are insensitive and walking way outside God’s lines with some of their sexual requests.  And that’s just plain wrong.
So if you are reading this and you’re that guy… stop it. Stop [...]

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Extraordinary Sex in Your Ordinary Life

Posted on Thursday, May 15th, 2014

I’ve always felt painfully average.
When Jesus says the first will be last and the last will be first, I figure… ehh… I’ll probably be right in the middle somewhere.
Average.
And by most accounts, my life is, [...]

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Do You Hear What I Hear?

Posted on Wednesday, April 9th, 2014

I know.  It’s April.
I shouldn’t be using Christmas song lyrics in a headline.
BUT… it seemed like a good way to say that Pursuit of Passion: Discovering True Intimacy in Your Marriage is now available in [...]

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3 Things Sex Tells Us About the Lord

Posted on Saturday, April 5th, 2014

I have a doctor friend who says she never grows weary of studying the human body.
“It’s just so fascinating,” she said to me once, even after having spent months and years trudging through the grueling [...]

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I Like Him Better After We Have Sex

Posted on Sunday, March 23rd, 2014

Okay. I can’t lie.
I like my husband better after we have sex.
I mean, not just in those immediate moments.
(Although, those immediate moments… wow.  Deliciously astounding, I tell you).
More importantly, though, I like him in the [...]

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Sex and Your Marriage: Are You Giving Your Spouse False Hope?

Posted on Thursday, February 27th, 2014

One of my pastors recently shared a message about why we as the body of Christ cannot take lightly the serious struggles some people face.
With regard to the deep pain some people are in, he [...]

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5 Reasons the Church Won’t Talk Authentically About Sex

Posted on Thursday, February 20th, 2014

I usually see one of two looks on people’s faces when I say I am a Christian wife who speaks and writes about sex in marriage.
Either they become nervous and want to change the subject.
Or [...]

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Sochi and Sex: 5 Reasons Details Matter

Posted on Thursday, February 13th, 2014

Like many people, I’ve been watching the 2014 Winter Olympics in Sochi.
And, of course, I got to thinking about sex in marriage.
There’s been so much commentary about important details that seem to not be quite [...]

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