Do You Hear What I Hear?

Posted on Wednesday, April 9th, 2014

I know.  It’s April.
I shouldn’t be using Christmas song lyrics in a headline.
BUT… it seemed like a good way to say that Pursuit of Passion: Discovering True Intimacy in Your Marriage is now available in [...]

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3 Things Sex Tells Us About the Lord

Posted on Saturday, April 5th, 2014

I have a doctor friend who says she never grows weary of studying the human body.
“It’s just so fascinating,” she said to me once, even after having spent months and years trudging through the grueling [...]

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I Like Him Better After We Have Sex

Posted on Sunday, March 23rd, 2014

Okay. I can’t lie.
I like my husband better after we have sex.
I mean, not just in those immediate moments.
(Although, those immediate moments… wow.  Deliciously astounding, I tell you).
More importantly, though, I like him in the [...]

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Sex and Your Marriage: Are You Giving Your Spouse False Hope?

Posted on Thursday, February 27th, 2014

One of my pastors recently shared a message about why we as the body of Christ cannot take lightly the serious struggles some people face.
With regard to the deep pain some people are in, he [...]

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5 Reasons the Church Won’t Talk Authentically About Sex

Posted on Thursday, February 20th, 2014

I usually see one of two looks on people’s faces when I say I am a Christian wife who speaks and writes about sex in marriage.
Either they become nervous and want to change the subject.
Or [...]

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Sochi and Sex: 5 Reasons Details Matter

Posted on Thursday, February 13th, 2014

Like many people, I’ve been watching the 2014 Winter Olympics in Sochi.
And, of course, I got to thinking about sex in marriage.
There’s been so much commentary about important details that seem to not be quite [...]

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Is It Sexy Being a Mrs? Well, If You Ask Me…

Posted on Friday, January 24th, 2014

Mrs. Randall Sibert
That’s how my husband’s aunt addressed the card she sent me for my birthday today.
Mrs. Randall Sibert
Such a greeting scrolled across an envelope alludes to a different era, doesn’t it?  I miss that [...]

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This Video Could Change Your Marriage

Posted on Wednesday, January 15th, 2014

What jump starts real breakthrough in sexual intimacy struggles?
Sometimes it’s when we hear the vulnerable journey of someone else who has struggled — and moved beyond that place of feeling stuck and hopeless.
That is why I [...]

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5 Things I Tell Young Wives About SEX

Posted on Thursday, January 9th, 2014

When my sister-in-law was in the hospital in labor with my niece, I thought it would be an ideal time to show her (and everyone else in the room) the fabric I’d picked out for [...]

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Is Ministry Destroying Sex with Your Spouse?

Posted on Saturday, January 4th, 2014

What is your ministry?
Helping with children’s programs?
Planning Vacation Bible School?
Leading women’s Bible study?
Feeding the homeless?
Helping immigrants adjust to life in the U.S.?
Serving on the church board?
Collecting clothing for those who are less fortunate?
Evangelizing to a [...]

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