When Bad Language is a Turn On During Sex. Is This Okay?

Posted on Wednesday, July 22nd, 2015

A young married couple emailed me recently, admitting that they were both aroused by using  certain obscene and/or slang language during sex.
They wondered if I thought this was okay.
Some of you may think the couple’s quandary […]

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Is Parenting Destroying Sex in Your Marriage?

Posted on Sunday, July 12th, 2015

 
Dustin Riechmann of Engaged Marriage is sharing today as part of my ongoing guest blog series on things that destroy sex in marriage.
For many of us, parenting does take a toll on sexual intimacy!  Dustin offers […]

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Praises for “The Unveiled Wife” by Jennifer Smith

Posted on Saturday, July 11th, 2015

 
I recently finished reading Jennifer Smith’s book “The Unveiled Wife,” in which she chronicles with raw vulnerability the struggles she and her husband Aaron faced from the start of their young marriage.
With transparency and courage, she […]

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Is Your Past Destroying Sex in Your Marriage?

Posted on Wednesday, July 8th, 2015

 
As part of my ongoing guest blog series on things that destroy sex in marriage and what we can do about those things, I today welcome Chris Taylor of The Forgiven Wife.
“Forget the former things; do not […]

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Is Exhaustion Destroying Sex in Your Marriage?

Posted on Thursday, July 2nd, 2015

 
As part of my ongoing guest blog series on things that destroy sex in marriage and what we can do about those things, I today welcome Gaye Groover Christmus of Calm Healthy Sexy.
Such great insights in […]

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“My Husband Doesn’t Find Me Sexy. Now what?”

Posted on Monday, June 22nd, 2015

Awhile back I received an email from a reader, sharing that her husband doesn’t find her sexy (and has actually said this to her, even though he says he does love her and thinks she […]

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Are Friends Destroying Sex in Your Marriage?

Posted on Sunday, June 21st, 2015

This is part 3 in a guest blog series on things that destroy sex in marriage and what we can do about it. Part 1 was on body image struggles and part 2 was on sexual […]

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Is Inhibition Destroying Sex in Your Marriage?

Posted on Thursday, June 11th, 2015

This is part 2 in a guest blog series on things that destroy sex in marriage and what we can do about it. You can find part 1 on body image struggles here).
Today I welcome […]

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What is Destroying Sex in Your Marriage?

Posted on Saturday, June 6th, 2015

Is SEX is a struggle in your marriage?
If so, what’s behind that?
How did you arrive at this place where intimacy is anything but intimate — and maybe isn’t even happening at all?
I am kicking off a […]

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Sexually Speaking, Is Your Marriage a Fraud?

Posted on Wednesday, June 3rd, 2015

 
This is such a painful question.
I know.
Lately I have been particularly undone by the emails I’ve been getting.  The ones wrought with despondency and frustration and confusion and “I’m ready to give up.”
As a Christian […]

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