The Generous Husband’s Tips on Massage

Posted on Monday, January 16th, 2012

Okay, this is a rarity for me.

I’m writing a post simply to point you to another post. In this case, it is a post about massage written by Paul Byerly (better known as The Generous Husband). I’ve been to massage therapy school, so I know full well the healthy benefits of massage, especially between a husband and a wife.

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Is It Reasonable to Say “No” to Oral Sex?

Posted on Saturday, December 31st, 2011

Years ago, a friend and I were talking in general about sex. In the course of our conversation, the topic of oral sex came up.

I casually mentioned, “What’s not to like about oral sex?”

“Giving or receiving?” she asked.

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Why You Like the Sex Depicted in Chick Flicks

Posted on Friday, December 30th, 2011

“Was it love… or was it the idea of being in love?”

That is a lyric from the song “One Slip” by Pink Floyd. I had the album back in the day and have essentially forgotten everything on it, with the exception of that one lyric.

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The Problem with “Non-Sexual Touch”

Posted on Saturday, December 17th, 2011

I woke up this morning thinking about that term “non-sexual touch.”

(Don’t ask me why. Is there any rhyme or reason as to why these things come to me when they do?!)

The term “non-sexual touch” usually is brought up when a couple has struggled with getting on the same page about sexual intimacy.

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From Sexual Brokenness to Authentic Sexual Intimacy: One Reader’s Story

Posted on Wednesday, December 14th, 2011

Our post today comes from one of my readers, Zinnada Hodges, who shares so genuinely about her own journey.

This post is so powerful.

If you have ever harbored skewed perspectives about sex, struggled with body image or simply been too tired to have sex, her story will resonate with you.

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Do You Really Have “Plenty of Time Later” to Nurture Your Marriage?

Posted on Monday, November 28th, 2011

My husband and I were shopping at Kohl’s recently, where he insisted on buying me an ridiculously priced coffee maker.
Being the meek and passive person I am, I merely batted my eyes and received my [...]

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Sexy Posts — Things I’ve Read That I Think You’ll Like Too

Posted on Tuesday, November 22nd, 2011

I’m humbly blessed to know some great bloggers.

And they write amazing stuff on sex and marriage.

I know this should go without saying, but those of us who do this marriage blogging thing do it because we’ve been in the trenches of marriage (and are still journeying) — and we desperately want to encourage other married folks.

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3 Things the Penn State Scandal is Ready to Give You

Posted on Thursday, November 10th, 2011

I’m not here to re-count the revelations surrounding Penn State and some of its coaches and administrators.

You’re a well-informed person.

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3 Reasons You are Easily Offended in Bed

Posted on Thursday, October 20th, 2011

So let me paint a few scenarios. Maybe they will ring familiar:

You and your husband are moving along in foreplay and you notice that he is not becoming aroused.

OR

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Better Health Leads to Better Sex? Likely!

Posted on Monday, October 17th, 2011

Remember when you were 18 and you didn’t give a second thought to being healthy and staying healthy?

(Okay, maybe that doesn’t describe you, but it sure describes me.)

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