“My Husband Doesn’t Find Me Sexy. Now what?”

Posted on Monday, June 22nd, 2015

Awhile back I received an email from a reader, sharing that her husband doesn’t find her sexy (and has actually said this to her, even though he says he does love her and thinks she […]

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Are Friends Destroying Sex in Your Marriage?

Posted on Sunday, June 21st, 2015

This is part 3 in a guest blog series on things that destroy sex in marriage and what we can do about it. Part 1 was on body image struggles and part 2 was on sexual […]

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Is Inhibition Destroying Sex in Your Marriage?

Posted on Thursday, June 11th, 2015

This is part 2 in a guest blog series on things that destroy sex in marriage and what we can do about it. You can find part 1 on body image struggles here).
Today I welcome […]

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What is Destroying Sex in Your Marriage?

Posted on Saturday, June 6th, 2015

Is SEX is a struggle in your marriage?
If so, what’s behind that?
How did you arrive at this place where intimacy is anything but intimate — and maybe isn’t even happening at all?
I am kicking off a […]

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Sexually Speaking, Is Your Marriage a Fraud?

Posted on Wednesday, June 3rd, 2015

This is such a painful question.
I know.
Lately I have been particularly undone by the emails I’ve been getting.  The ones wrought with despondency and frustration and confusion and “I’m ready to give up.”
As a Christian […]

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Encouraging Post-Menopausal Women to Not Give Up on Sex…

Posted on Wednesday, May 13th, 2015

Not long ago, I received an email from a reader, and I thought it could encourage other readers.
In what she shares below, she mentions supplements and sex toys.  I realize some of you may have […]

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5 Costs of Sexually Refusing Your Spouse

Posted on Wednesday, May 6th, 2015

Are you sexually refusing your spouse?
I’m not talking about situations where the sexual disrepair is shackled to deep and sometimes painful roadblocks (Lack of repentance about infidelity and pornography use.  Medical diagnoses or injuries that make sex […]

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If You Want to Hear Me Talking About Sex…

Posted on Tuesday, May 5th, 2015

Awhile back, Belah Rose of DelightYourMarriage.com asked to interview me for her podcast.
What a genuine person this woman is!  This conversation felt like sitting with a friend, talking honestly about marriage and sex — and […]

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3 Things I Want You to Know About Me and My Blog

Posted on Thursday, April 9th, 2015

As a Christian wife who blogs about sex in marriage, I am in a pretty small camp.
(Although I’m beyond grateful that I do not camp alone… see the end of my post for links to other gals […]

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The Sexiest Thing You Can Do for Your Husband

Posted on Wednesday, April 8th, 2015

I don’t know your husband, so I can’t answer for certainty what he would say if we asked him, “What is the sexiest thing your wife can do for you?”
But if he is like many husbands, […]

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