The Problem with “Non-Sexual Touch”
Posted on Saturday, December 17th, 2011
I woke up this morning thinking about that term “non-sexual touch.”
(Don’t ask me why. Is there any rhyme or reason as to why these things come to me when they do?!)
The term “non-sexual touch” usually is brought up when a couple has struggled with getting on the same page about sexual intimacy.
continue readingMore Masturbation Talk. From a Couple of Wives.
Posted on Wednesday, October 19th, 2011
If you stopped by on Monday, you discovered that my fellow blogger friend, Mrs. Hot Holy Humorous, and I are trying to get our hands around this masturbation topic.
(You gotta cut me some slack with that last sentence. I’m a writer for goodness sakes. Clever word play is my own sad pathetic form of entertainment. I kid you not).
continue readingHappy Husbands Come From Wives Who Put Out
Posted on Thursday, October 13th, 2011
What?!
I didn’t just write that in the headline, did I?
Do happy husbands come from wives who put out?
“Whoa, Nellie.” I can feel the glares, especially from some of you wives reading this. But please don’t board the “I’m so offended” train just yet.
continue readingLather, Rinse, Repeat? A Follow Up Post on the “Golden Shower”
Posted on Wednesday, September 28th, 2011
Let me just say, I had no idea that one post would generate so much dialogue.
In the post What If My Husband Wants to Do Something Sexually That I Find Degrading, I wrote about the sexual act referred to as a “golden shower” or “golden bath.”
continue readingOne Truth About Marriage You Can’t Escape
Posted on Monday, August 15th, 2011
“I want you to want me.”
This statement — or closely-echoed sentiments — is a foundational premise in marriage.
Think I’m crazy?
Have a conversation with any bride or groom moments before they stand in front of a [...]
Altar of Inhibition: Are You Sacrificing Your Sexual Intimacy?
Posted on Monday, June 13th, 2011
This is Part 3 of our series “What Altars Are You Sacrificing Your Sexual Intimacy On?”
I’ve been blessed to connect with Brad and Kate Aldrich of One Flesh Marriage. Today Kate shares how inhibitions can sabotage sexual intimacy. Take a look and see what you think.
continue readingOne Flesh Marriage: Sexual Intimacy Insights You Don’t Want to Miss
Posted on Sunday, April 17th, 2011
My pals Brad and Kate Aldrich over at One Flesh Marriage recently ran a series titled “5 Bloggers 5 Questions.”
continue readingWould You Be Fine With Your Husband Having Sex With Someone Else?
Posted on Saturday, March 19th, 2011
So I’m talking one day to a woman who obviously was very indifferent to nurturing sexual intimacy with her husband. I try to convince her that maybe such intimacy does deserve some of her effort.
continue readingSafe Sex: What Some Burglars Taught Me
Posted on Thursday, February 24th, 2011
About a year ago, I pulled into my driveway one evening to find two men trying to break in our basement door. Of course, the sudden appearance of headlights compelled them to run, leaving me and my two young boys sitting in our vehicle completely rattled.
continue readingGreat Stuff You Gotta Check Out
Posted on Wednesday, February 16th, 2011
Want to know a huge advantage of being a blogger about sexual intimacy? My in-box is flooded with the posts and valuable tidbits of other marriage bloggers. Hey, none of us have all the answers. But collectively… we tackle just about every marriage topic you can fathom.
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