Fifty Shades of Great Sex with Your Husband

Posted on Monday, April 30th, 2012

The book Fifty Shades of Grey is climbing the publishing charts, further propelling the phenomenon of erotica gone mainstream.

I should start with the disclaimer that I have not read the book.

Don’t need to.

Have no desire to.

Do You Embrace Being Called Your Husband’s Wife?

Posted on Saturday, April 7th, 2012

I was thinking about how such identity markers can stir either positive or negative feelings in us, particularly when it comes to those relationships that are closest to us. Those are the relationships that carry the greatest costs — and the greatest rewards, so to speak.

3 Reasons to Let Your Husband Undress You

Posted on Monday, February 27th, 2012

I was having a conversation with someone recently about how powerful it can be for a wife to allow her husband to undress her before sex.

I realize for some of you, your guard went up when you read the headline. I’ve heard from enough women’s hearts to know there are indeed reasons behind this.

33 Years of Marriage? What Could You Learn?

Posted on Friday, February 24th, 2012

I was just reading a post by Tom and Debi Walter of The Romantic Vineyard.

They are celebrating 33 years of marriage and have compiled a list of 33 things they have learned about marriage over that time.

Please invest in your marriage by doing this:

What a New Wife MUST Know About Sex

Posted on Monday, February 20th, 2012

Okay, I’m going to try something a little unconventional here.

I’m not asking for much. I just want your honest insights.

The Problem with “Non-Sexual Touch”

Posted on Saturday, December 17th, 2011

I woke up this morning thinking about that term “non-sexual touch.”

(Don’t ask me why. Is there any rhyme or reason as to why these things come to me when they do?!)

The term “non-sexual touch” usually is brought up when a couple has struggled with getting on the same page about sexual intimacy.

More Masturbation Talk. From a Couple of Wives.

Posted on Wednesday, October 19th, 2011

If you stopped by on Monday, you discovered that my fellow blogger friend, Mrs. Hot Holy Humorous, and I are trying to get our hands around this masturbation topic.

(You gotta cut me some slack with that last sentence. I’m a writer for goodness sakes. Clever word play is my own sad pathetic form of entertainment. I kid you not).

Happy Husbands Come From Wives Who Put Out

Posted on Thursday, October 13th, 2011

What?!

I didn’t just write that in the headline, did I?

Do happy husbands come from wives who put out?

“Whoa, Nellie.” I can feel the glares, especially from some of you wives reading this. But please don’t board the “I’m so offended” train just yet.

Lather, Rinse, Repeat? A Follow Up Post on the “Golden Shower”

Posted on Wednesday, September 28th, 2011

Let me just say, I had no idea that one post would generate so much dialogue.

In the post What If My Husband Wants to Do Something Sexually That I Find Degrading, I wrote about the sexual act referred to as a “golden shower” or “golden bath.”

One Truth About Marriage You Can’t Escape

Posted on Monday, August 15th, 2011

“I want you to want me.”
This statement — or closely-echoed sentiments — is a foundational premise in marriage.
Think I’m crazy?
Have a conversation with any bride or groom moments before they stand in front of a [...]