What a Shark Taught Me About Sex

Posted on Saturday, January 7th, 2012

I’m talking about a literal shark.

For those of you who don’t know much about Omaha except that it is in the middle of the country and it has hosted the Men’s College World Series for more than 50 years, you may be surprised to hear that we have one of the best zoos in the country.

Why It’s Okay If You Forget Most of the Times You Have Sex

Posted on Friday, August 5th, 2011

My husband and I recently had an all-night date. Well, kind of.

By “all-night,” what I really mean is that a generous friend took our kids overnight. (Yeah, I wish it meant that my beloved and I had sex into the wee hours, but we are old).

All that being said, the “all-night date” was awesome. Delicious dinner. Movie. Sex. Sleep.

And we will likely forget it all.

5 Cheapest Ways to Turn Your Husband On

Posted on Wednesday, July 13th, 2011

Can’t afford the $50 negligee?

No cash for a one-night hotel getaway?

Don’t want to splurge for a fancy dinner?

Don’t worry. There are plenty of ways to arouse your husband sexually without spending a chunk of change on a ritzy hotel.

The Altar of Seriousness: Are You Sacrificing Your Sexual Intimacy?

Posted on Sunday, July 3rd, 2011

Sex can be a lot of fun!

That’s why I’m thrilled Mrs. Hot Holy Humorous has decided to chime in on my “altar” series. Truth be told, a lot of couples are just so serious when it comes to sex. Instead of enjoying the playful and recreational aspects of sex, they go through the motions and zap any hint of fun right out of it.

Hey Guys — Want to Get Lucky?

Posted on Friday, April 22nd, 2011

This is for all my readers who are husbands (I hear from quite a few of you, so I know you’re out there!) Are you looking to enjoy more sex with your wife?

Does Your Husband Want the Girlfriend Treatment? Will You Give it to Him?

Posted on Monday, April 18th, 2011

My beloved shared with me the other day that one of the guys at work was joking around about wishing he could get “the girlfriend treatment” from his wife.

Can Sexual Tension Be a Good Thing?

Posted on Tuesday, February 8th, 2011

My husband is an avid gardener and grows quite a few varieties of peppers. Last year, for the first time he grew Tabasco peppers, which are tiny, but obviously (as the name implies), very hot. At the end of the season, we dried some of them and recently I ground them into a powder for seasoning.

Sexual tension is a lot like that Tabasco powder. A little bit can bring amazing flavor and “wow!” Too much and everything is ruined… even painful.

Sexual Intimacy, Miss Abigail and a Night Out on the Town

Posted on Tuesday, December 21st, 2010

Some interesting things happen when you blog about sex. The obvious one is I get more offers than I can count to buy Viagra through discreet off-shore “pharmacies.”

Friends With Benefits: Sexual Intimacy in Your Marriage

Posted on Friday, December 17th, 2010

After my husband drives my vehicle, he rarely returns the seat to the position I need it. And truth be told, I am not all that great at loading the dishwasher (I really do suck at it). Yeah, we sometimes get on each other’s nerves. And years ago, this got me thinking, “Can too much communication ever be a bad thing in a marriage?”

Enough With the Double Standards Regarding Oral Sex

Posted on Friday, December 3rd, 2010

As anyone who has followed my blog will know, I am a big proponent of married couples nurturing their sexual intimacy. I’ve written about oral sex before, simply because it is indeed a source of contention within many marriages (maybe even more so among Christian married couples).