Purpose of Orgasm? You Tell Me.
Posted on Tuesday, March 20th, 2012
What do you think is the purpose of orgasm?
I was pondering this as I was watching the March 19 episode of Nightline, where they did a segment on female orgasm.
continue readingYour Orgasm Is Your Responsibility (Mostly)
Posted on Tuesday, July 12th, 2011
Hollywood has screwed us up when it comes to sexual expectations.
First, we expect that great sex is always going to happen in the missionary position. Second, we think the man arrives with a wealth of accurate sexual knowledge about the female body.
(Look at me – I just wrote a love scene for the next romantic comedy blockbuster.)
continue reading“Oh God” and Other Things We Say During Sex
Posted on Thursday, June 30th, 2011
Years ago I was having lunch with my sister-in-law and my mom. In all seriousness, I asked, “What do you think is the hardest part of parenting?”
Without skipping a beat, my sister-in-law said, “Quiet sex.”
All three of us erupted in laughter at her comment, which obviously referenced the lengths some parents go to in keeping their sexual intimacy under wraps. Honestly, I still chuckle a bit when I think of her statement.
continue readingThe Altar of No Pleasure: Are You Sacrificing Your Sexual Intimacy?
Posted on Monday, June 27th, 2011
Today in our on-going “altar” series, we have author and speaker Sheila Gregoire digging into another altar — Lack of Pleasure. Is sex not pleasurable for you? Instead of figuring that out, you just assume not do it at all?
Well, glean from Sheila’s wisdom on this topic that could compel you to pull your sexual intimacy off this “altar.”
Ever notice how everybody in the whole wide world absolutely loves sex?
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