Do You Hear What I Hear?

Posted on Wednesday, April 9th, 2014

I know.  It’s April.
I shouldn’t be using Christmas song lyrics in a headline.
BUT… it seemed like a good way to say that Pursuit of Passion: Discovering True Intimacy in Your Marriage is now available in [...]

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I Like Him Better After We Have Sex

Posted on Sunday, March 23rd, 2014

Okay. I can’t lie.
I like my husband better after we have sex.
I mean, not just in those immediate moments.
(Although, those immediate moments… wow.  Deliciously astounding, I tell you).
More importantly, though, I like him in the [...]

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Sex Savvy Wives: Learning the Power of Pleasure

Posted on Thursday, March 6th, 2014

I am thrilled to have recently interviewed my wildly funny and insightful friend J of Hot Holy Humorous fame on her new book, Sex Savvy: A Lovemaking Guide for Christian Wives.
Like me, she’s a Christian [...]

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Sex and Your Marriage: Are You Giving Your Spouse False Hope?

Posted on Thursday, February 27th, 2014

One of my pastors recently shared a message about why we as the body of Christ cannot take lightly the serious struggles some people face.
With regard to the deep pain some people are in, he [...]

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5 Reasons the Church Won’t Talk Authentically About Sex

Posted on Thursday, February 20th, 2014

I usually see one of two looks on people’s faces when I say I am a Christian wife who speaks and writes about sex in marriage.
Either they become nervous and want to change the subject.
Or [...]

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Is It Sexy Being a Mrs? Well, If You Ask Me…

Posted on Friday, January 24th, 2014

Mrs. Randall Sibert
That’s how my husband’s aunt addressed the card she sent me for my birthday today.
Mrs. Randall Sibert
Such a greeting scrolled across an envelope alludes to a different era, doesn’t it?  I miss that [...]

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One Thing That Can Radically Improve Sex

Posted on Wednesday, January 1st, 2014

How much do you enjoy your spouse as a friend?
For some marriages (sadly), that’s such a foreign question.
Somewhere along the way between the altar and now, they lost track of what it means to be [...]

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Talking Sex in London: My Latest Interview

Posted on Saturday, December 28th, 2013

Well, I wasn’t in London talking about sex.
Although, that would be totally cool.
Maybe someday soon a church or ministry will want me to come there and talk about sex. (Hint, hint to all my British [...]

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Do You Know What Turns You On?

Posted on Friday, December 27th, 2013

Were you sexually attracted to your spouse before you got married?
Sexual attraction is an interesting phenomenon, isn’t it?
We rarely have to tell it to show up when we are dating.
A man and woman start spending [...]

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Is Sex Marriage’s Biggest Lie?

Posted on Monday, December 2nd, 2013

I’ve received a few emails and comments as of late that echo the below sentiment (or some resemblance of it):
Sex is the biggest lie of marriage.
In Christian circles, the angst of sexual refusal starts to [...]

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