Posted on Monday, December 2nd, 2013
I’ve received a few emails and comments as of late that echo the below sentiment (or some resemblance of it):
Sex is the biggest lie of marriage.
In Christian circles, the angst of sexual refusal starts to [...]
Posted on Saturday, November 30th, 2013
The really short answer to the question is because Jeff Murphy asked me if I would write a book with him about sexual intimacy in marriage.
And I said yes.
Jeff had already co-authored a book called [...]
Posted on Wednesday, November 27th, 2013
As I was putting Youngest Child to bed, he asked me how I knew his dad was the man for me.
“Well, he loves Jesus,” I said.
Then pausing for moment.
“And a good mechanic is hard to [...]
Posted on Friday, November 22nd, 2013
Okay, I’m waaaayyy behind in getting this up on the blog, but Stu Gray of Stupendous Marriage interviewed me and I wanted to share it with you.
(Took a few moments to load on my computer, [...]
Posted on Thursday, October 3rd, 2013
A Christian radio program out of London recently interviewed me about sexual intimacy in marriage.
A big shout out to the host Patricia, as I was humbly privileged to be on the show. (I just love [...]
Posted on Thursday, September 19th, 2013
I fought with the mortgage company today.
Twice recently they told me they paid our homeowner’s insurance out of our escrow account.
Sounded good to me, because that is what they are supposed to do.
But then [...]
Posted on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
I’m often accused of rallying around sexually-deprived husbands (figuratively, mind you) way more than I come to the defense of the wives who are doing the refusing.
Guilty as charged. I admit it.
The emails of [...]
Posted on Friday, August 2nd, 2013
Before age 34, I was never a coffee drinker.
The first time I had a latte, I was about 6 months pregnant with our youngest son.
In my naivety, I failed to order decaf, so you can [...]
Posted on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013
Occasionally, people think I land too much on the side of husbands when it comes to denial of sex.
Many of my posts do indeed encourage wives to be more sexually available and interested.
I do have [...]
Posted on Tuesday, July 16th, 2013
Can you identify with the below scenario?
Husband really wants sex. Wife realizes this, and either responds to his initiation or initiates on her own. The sexual experience is actually quite good for both of them.