3 Ideas if You Can’t Afford Professional Marriage Counseling

Posted on Thursday, March 26th, 2015

Anyone who reads my blog for any amount of time knows that I see great value in professional counseling.
I personally go to a counselor about once a month, because I appreciate having a sounding board who […]

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Has Your Husband Stopped Initiating Sex?

Posted on Friday, December 5th, 2014

It wasn’t until he stopped initiating that it occurred to her something could be wrong.
And it wasn’t that she was necessarily concerned he was “getting it elsewhere” (although, she knew that wasn’t such a far-fetched possibility, […]

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Are You Doing Your “Job” in Your Marriage?

Posted on Saturday, October 25th, 2014

I don’t really want to use Coach Jimbo Fisher and Florida State football as my lead in (in light of the controversy around quarterback Jameis Winston).
BUT Fisher’s post-game on-field interview after FSU’s win over Notre Dame really […]

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Marriage is Easy. Said No One Ever.

Posted on Friday, October 3rd, 2014

Ok, I have met a few people who think marriage is easy.
But those conversations are rare.  Count-on-one-hand-and-still-have-fingers-left rare.
Most people I meet who are willing to get vulnerable reveal something that tends to be more universal […]

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Husbands Who Deny Sex and the Wives Who Suffer

Posted on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013

Occasionally, people think I land too much on the side of husbands when it comes to denial of sex.
Many of my posts do indeed encourage wives to be more sexually available and interested.
I do have […]

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Don’t Save Your Marriage for the Kids

Posted on Friday, May 31st, 2013

It’s a common argument, you know.
When a couple is at the point of researching divorce lawyers and pondering if their incomes can support two households…
When two people who gave themselves to each other now envision […]

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10 Easy Steps to Destroy Your Wife’s Womanhood

Posted on Tuesday, May 14th, 2013

I did a post on How to Destroy Your Husband’s Manhood in 10 Easy Steps.
I think it’s only fair to give equal commentary to…
How to Destroy Your Wife’s Womanhood in 10 Easy Steps:
1. Compare her […]

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Do Some People Believe Your Marriage Won’t Make It?

Posted on Wednesday, January 30th, 2013

I was so encouraged the other day by blogger Lori Byerly, who shared in her post that when she and husband Paul married, quite a few people doubted it would last.
Lori and Paul just celebrated […]

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Could This Wife’s Story Be Yours?

Posted on Thursday, November 8th, 2012

I recently received an email from a woman expressing her deep regret about not addressing the sexual intimacy struggles in her marriage sooner.

She has given me permission to share her story, with the hope that it will help other wives realize the deep significance of sexual intimacy in a marriage.

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The Problem With Marriage Blogs

Posted on Wednesday, October 10th, 2012

The problem with marriage blogs is that there are always exceptions to what they say…

…and this can be particularly devastating to someone who finds themselves smack dab in the middle of the exception.

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