A Sex Video You Absolutely Must See

Posted on Saturday, November 26th, 2011

Every now and then, I come across a video that just amazes me.

Take a few minutes and watch this video of this young man, who proclaims truth about sexual healing with such clarity.

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3 Things the Penn State Scandal is Ready to Give You

Posted on Thursday, November 10th, 2011

I’m not here to re-count the revelations surrounding Penn State and some of its coaches and administrators.

You’re a well-informed person.

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Birth Control. Sheila Gregoire. And a Conversation You Don’t Want to Miss.

Posted on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011

Lately I’ve been a little self-absorbed.

See, I have a broken finger (long story) with some slight tendon damage thrown in as well.

Saving grace is it is on my non-dominant hand. Still annoying though.

See what I mean? I’m self-absorbed.

So imagine my relief when I still managed to stumble upon this phenomenal conversation Sheila Gregoire generated on her blog about birth control.

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What Sex-Starved Husbands Tell Me

Posted on Sunday, October 23rd, 2011

Your husband is not an “animal” for wanting to have sex.

He is not being unreasonably demanding.

And he is not a selfish pig.

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3 Reasons You are Easily Offended in Bed

Posted on Thursday, October 20th, 2011

So let me paint a few scenarios. Maybe they will ring familiar:

You and your husband are moving along in foreplay and you notice that he is not becoming aroused.

OR

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3 Ways to Get in the Mood For Sex

Posted on Saturday, October 15th, 2011

I am not always in the mood for sex.

(I can you hear you gasping from here. My reputation must proceed me.)

But hey, I admit it, there are moments — albeit, they are extremely rare — when my senses are somewhat dulled to the idea of sex.

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Happy Husbands Come From Wives Who Put Out

Posted on Thursday, October 13th, 2011

What?!

I didn’t just write that in the headline, did I?

Do happy husbands come from wives who put out?

“Whoa, Nellie.” I can feel the glares, especially from some of you wives reading this. But please don’t board the “I’m so offended” train just yet.

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Giving My Body to My Wife — One Husband’s Story

Posted on Friday, October 7th, 2011

Not long ago, I asked for readers’ stories with regard to struggles in sexual intimacy and how couples have found a path to healing.

Today’s story comes from a reader named Bob. I appreciate his vulnerability and transparency. It takes courage to share so openly. With that in mind, please read with a compassionate heart. Possibly you’ll see glimpses of your own marriage in his story.

Be sure to read all the way through, as Bob shares a powerful declaration he sent to his wife.

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Little Irritations are Killing Your Sex Life

Posted on Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

So I was cruising through my favorite bloggers and came across this post by Lori Byerly titled Irritations and Peeves with Collars.

Fabulous post by the way.

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Lather, Rinse, Repeat? A Follow Up Post on the “Golden Shower”

Posted on Wednesday, September 28th, 2011

Let me just say, I had no idea that one post would generate so much dialogue.

In the post What If My Husband Wants to Do Something Sexually That I Find Degrading, I wrote about the sexual act referred to as a “golden shower” or “golden bath.”

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