Category Archives: sexual intimacy struggles

What’s the Secret to Great Sex in Marriage?

It would be convenient if indeed there was a secret to great sex in marriage, [...]

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How Do You Loosen the Grip of Past Sexual Trauma?

Not long ago, someone shared vulnerably with me about a painful sexual abuse experience that [...]

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3 Strategies to Stay Connected Sexually When Your Kids are Little

My oldest is 21 and my youngest is 15, so I am way beyond the [...]

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3 Tips on Managing Sexual Expectations Throughout Your Marriage

It seems to be the crux of most sexual struggles in marriage—different expectations. If you’ve [...]

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Putting a Pin in Your Intimacy Struggles During Unexpected Crisis

I mentioned this in a post recently—the value of agreeing as husband and wife to [...]

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Stripping Down to What’s Really Important

This pandemic is surreal. It’s stripping away things we long ago took for granted. It’s [...]

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20 Years Ago Today My Husband Left Me

It’s been 20 years ago today. Twenty years ago my first husband left me. I [...]

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Virus Crisis and Navigating Intimacy in an Already Fragile Marriage

As we swim in unchartered waters with this COVID-19 pandemic, is the stress of being [...]

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It’s All in Your Head: Feeling Sexy No Matter Your Hair Color

I was thinking recently about the first time several years ago I noticed a gray [...]

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