Category Archives: sexual intimacy struggles

When Did Sex in Your Marriage Start to Go Off the Rails?

Occasionally, I hear from people whose sexual intimacy struggles began abruptly. But the more common [...]

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I Get Why People Isolate When They’re Struggling

I was thinking this morning about the two huge crises going on in my life [...]

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Marriage and Gratefulness in the Age of a Pandemic?

Gratefulness. It’s a common go-to as a way to make difficult times more bearable. The [...]

Can I Convince You to Pay Attention to Sex in Your Marriage? Maybe.

February of this year marked my 10th year writing this blog. To date, I’ve written [...]

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Why Does Sexual Desire Fade in a Marriage?

I want to start with a huge disclaimer that sexual desire doesn’t always fade in [...]

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Most Creative, Lame or Hurtful Excuses for Denying Sex?

It’s a question. I’m genuinely asking. What are the most creative, lame or hurtful excuses [...]

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Do You Deny Your Spouse Sex? 3 Questions to Ask Yourself…

I know this is a divisive and sensitive topic. But my goal always is that [...]

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How Do You Cope with a Sexless Marriage?

I can’t decide if my headline is a question I’m posing to those of you [...]

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Improving Physical Health Can Help Sexual Health

There’s been a lot of chatter about how these pandemic stay-at-home measures have led to [...]