Category Archives: authentic

When Did Sex in Your Marriage Start to Go Off the Rails?

Occasionally, I hear from people whose sexual intimacy struggles began abruptly. But the more common [...]

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I Get Why People Isolate When They’re Struggling

I was thinking this morning about the two huge crises going on in my life [...]

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Reasons to Celebrate Mother’s Day

I love sending cards. While I was shopping one day, I found a comical birthday [...]

10 Places You’d Love to Have Sex (But Haven’t)

Ahh, to dream a little. And what better time to dream about having sex someplace [...]

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Marriage and Gratefulness in the Age of a Pandemic?

Gratefulness. It’s a common go-to as a way to make difficult times more bearable. The [...]

Can I Convince You to Pay Attention to Sex in Your Marriage? Maybe.

February of this year marked my 10th year writing this blog. To date, I’ve written [...]

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Why Does Sexual Desire Fade in a Marriage?

I want to start with a huge disclaimer that sexual desire doesn’t always fade in [...]

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Is Sex in Your Marriage Intuitive?

We live in a house that my husband’s grandparents built in 1927—eons before building codes [...]

Kegelbell: A Gym for Your Vagina?

Ahh, Kegel exercises. Nothing like being able to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles while you’re [...]