While I know the common belief is that it is only husbands who want more sex, I recognize that the opposite scenario also happens.
I do hear from wives who want more sex and overall intimacy and aren’t getting it. Not surprisingly, these women feel especially alone. Not only are they not experiencing the benefits and love of sexual intimacy with their husbands, they also may feel isolated and surrounded by friends who simply cannot relate to that situation.
Regardless of why sex isn’t happening in a marriage or who is doing the denying, the answers are rarely easy. Each marriage is unique, so it comes as no surprise that any problems within a marriage also will have unique complexities.
If you are a wife whose husband is sexually unavailable, below are some links to posts that may be helpful:
5 Things to Guard Against as a Wife with a High Sex Drive
Husbands Who Deny Sex and the Wives Who Suffer
When Your Spouse Isn’t Interested in Sex
Wives Who Want More Sex and Aren’t Getting It
Wives Who are Sexually Refused
When She Has the Stronger Sex Drive (Part 1)
He Doesn’t Wanna, But I Do (Part 2)
When You Crave Sex More Than He Does
I Can’t Remember The Last Time My Husband Touched Me
I Can’t Remember The Last Time My Husband Touched Me (Part 2)
How To Get Him to Want to Have Sex
When She Has the Stronger Sex Drive (Part 1)
When She Has the Stronger Sex Drive (Part 2)
Help! My Husband Doesn’t Want Sex
It Hurts: A Message for Higher-Drive Wives
I Am the Higher Drive Spouse (or Yes, Rejection Hurts)
The Other Side of the Coin: Why Guys Say No to Sex
Spice and Love Blog written by a wife with a high sex drive If you know of other blog posts, please let me know so I can add them to the page!