Are Society’s Standards Destroying Sex in Your Marriage?

Posted on Tuesday, August 4th, 2015

It’s hard to argue that society doesn’t impact marriages. A busy and sometimes expensive lifestyle can spell doom for a couple’s intimacy.
Lori Lowe of Marriage Gems shares sound wisdom on nurturing our marriages, despite society’s standards that rail against […]

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Are Body Image Struggles Destroying Sex in Your Marriage?

Posted on Monday, June 8th, 2015

Today is part 1 of a series on what destroys sex in marriage and what we can do about it.
We are fortunate today to have my friend J Parker from Hot Holy Humorous digging into […]

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What is Destroying Sex in Your Marriage?

Posted on Saturday, June 6th, 2015

Is SEX is a struggle in your marriage?
If so, what’s behind that?
How did you arrive at this place where intimacy is anything but intimate — and maybe isn’t even happening at all?
I am kicking off a […]

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5 Costs of Sexually Refusing Your Spouse

Posted on Wednesday, May 6th, 2015

Are you sexually refusing your spouse?
I’m not talking about situations where the sexual disrepair is shackled to deep and sometimes painful roadblocks (Lack of repentance about infidelity and pornography use.  Medical diagnoses or injuries that make sex […]

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Sexual Struggles in Your Marriage? You May Need To…

Posted on Wednesday, April 1st, 2015

If there is one thing I have learned in all the years of speaking and writing about sex, it is that sexual struggles in marriage are often painfully complex.
Or simple.
Sometimes the reasons are painfully simple and easy […]

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9 Things I Would Say About Sex if I Had No Filter

Posted on Monday, January 19th, 2015

1.  I read Cosmopolitan at my hairstylist’s shop.
I admit it.  I want to know if there are 25 ways to rock my husband’s world tonight.  Sadly, I never learn anything new.
2.  I grow weary of people who  are […]

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Will the Sexy New Viagra Commercial Help More Marriages?

Posted on Wednesday, October 8th, 2014

There I was, just enjoying some post-season major league baseball, and what pops on my TV screen?
A sexy viagra commercial.
Have you seen it?
(I would show it here, but it is a little risqué — not by […]

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5 Ways We’ve Complicated Sex and Marriage

Posted on Thursday, July 24th, 2014

I hear a lot of heartache and trainwreck in the emails I get.
It debilitates me and motivates me at the same time.
And though each marriage is unique — and the sexual challenges therein are unique […]

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Where Great Sex is Hiding…

Posted on Tuesday, July 15th, 2014

I have forgotten nearly every wedding I’ve attended.
Including my own. (And it was a mere 11 years ago).
Sure, I remember snippets here and there; moments that stand out.
A particularly mischievous ring bearer.
A humorous speech at the reception.
Or […]

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Sex and Your Marriage: Are You Giving Your Spouse False Hope?

Posted on Thursday, February 27th, 2014

One of my pastors recently shared a message about why we as the body of Christ cannot take lightly the serious struggles some people face.
With regard to the deep pain some people are in, he […]

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