Posted on Wednesday, May 6th, 2015
Are you sexually refusing your spouse?
I’m not talking about situations where the sexual disrepair is shackled to deep and sometimes painful roadblocks (Lack of repentance about infidelity and pornography use. Medical diagnoses or injuries that make sex […]
Posted on Wednesday, April 1st, 2015
If there is one thing I have learned in all the years of speaking and writing about sex, it is that sexual struggles in marriage are often painfully complex.
Sometimes the reasons are painfully simple and easy […]
Posted on Monday, January 19th, 2015
1. I read Cosmopolitan at my hairstylist’s shop.
I admit it. I want to know if there are 25 ways to rock my husband’s world tonight. Sadly, I never learn anything new.
2. I grow weary of people who are […]
Posted on Wednesday, October 8th, 2014
There I was, just enjoying some post-season major league baseball, and what pops on my TV screen?
A sexy viagra commercial.
Have you seen it?
(I would show it here, but it is a little risqué — not by […]
Posted on Thursday, July 24th, 2014
I hear a lot of heartache and trainwreck in the emails I get.
It debilitates me and motivates me at the same time.
And though each marriage is unique — and the sexual challenges therein are unique […]
Posted on Tuesday, July 15th, 2014
I have forgotten nearly every wedding I’ve attended.
Including my own. (And it was a mere 11 years ago).
Sure, I remember snippets here and there; moments that stand out.
A particularly mischievous ring bearer.
A humorous speech at the reception.
Posted on Thursday, February 27th, 2014
One of my pastors recently shared a message about why we as the body of Christ cannot take lightly the serious struggles some people face.
With regard to the deep pain some people are in, he […]
Posted on Sunday, August 25th, 2013
I’m often accused of rallying around sexually-deprived husbands (figuratively, mind you) way more than I come to the defense of the wives who are doing the refusing.
Guilty as charged. I admit it.
The emails of […]
Posted on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013
Occasionally, people think I land too much on the side of husbands when it comes to denial of sex.
Many of my posts do indeed encourage wives to be more sexually available and interested.
I do have […]
Posted on Thursday, April 4th, 2013
I thought since I just posed the question, “Can Sexual Intimacy in Your Marriage be Resurrected?”, you would be encouraged to hear from someone who has lived such an experience first hand.
Below is an email […]