Sex and Your Marriage: Are You Giving Your Spouse False Hope?

Posted on Thursday, February 27th, 2014

One of my pastors recently shared a message about why we as the body of Christ cannot take lightly the serious struggles some people face.
With regard to the deep pain some people are in, he [...]

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5 Things Husbands Do that Turn Their Wives OFF Sexually

Posted on Sunday, August 25th, 2013

I’m often accused of rallying around sexually-deprived husbands (figuratively, mind you) way more than I come to the defense of the wives who are doing the refusing.
Guilty as charged. I admit it.
The emails of [...]

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Husbands Who Deny Sex and the Wives Who Suffer

Posted on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013

Occasionally, people think I land too much on the side of husbands when it comes to denial of sex.
Many of my posts do indeed encourage wives to be more sexually available and interested.
I do have [...]

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Sexual Redemption. Could Her Story Be Yours?

Posted on Thursday, April 4th, 2013

I thought since I just posed the question, “Can Sexual Intimacy in Your Marriage be Resurrected?”,  you would be encouraged to hear from someone who has lived such an experience first hand.
Below is an email [...]

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Birthday Sex? We Just Call it Sex!

Posted on Thursday, January 24th, 2013

Today is my birthday.

Ironically, the older I get, the more I like my birthday! Seriously.

It’s nice to be pampered, to hang out with my closest friends and loved ones and to appreciate all the goodness life has to offer.

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My Bad Knees Taught Me About Good Sex

Posted on Saturday, January 5th, 2013

I have crappy knees.

When I walk up or down stairs, it sounds like concrete is being mixed. In my knees.

I also have pain when going up or down from a seated position (or like if I want to get on the floor to play with my baby nephew. Getting down is hard. Getting back up is harder).

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Are You Careening Off a Sexual Cliff?

Posted on Tuesday, January 1st, 2013

Are we still teetering on the proverbial fiscal cliff?

Depends on who you ask, I suppose.

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It’s Not Just About the Sex, Is It Guys?

Posted on Wednesday, December 5th, 2012

If you are a wife reading this, I want to share with you what I hear from husbands…
…men who email me because they are at their wits end as to how to convey to their [...]

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Could This Wife’s Story Be Yours?

Posted on Thursday, November 8th, 2012

I recently received an email from a woman expressing her deep regret about not addressing the sexual intimacy struggles in her marriage sooner.

She has given me permission to share her story, with the hope that it will help other wives realize the deep significance of sexual intimacy in a marriage.

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Too Late To Improve Love and Sex in Your Marriage? Maybe Not!

Posted on Wednesday, October 17th, 2012

Occasionally I receive such a gem in my email in-box.

Below is one of those encouraging stories!

This is one man’s experience on how his marriage changed for the better when he made a humble and positive change.

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