Intimacy in Marriage

Has Your Husband Asked God to Take His Sex Drive Away?

  I receive more emails and comments from men than I do from women. This does not surprise me. What

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How Long Can a Marriage Go Without Sex?

Well. Some marriages go decades without sex, so the question of “can” doesn’t really get at the heart of the

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Why You Should Have A Lot of Sex

What constitutes “a lot” of sex?

What is considered “enough” sex?

Hmmm… the infamous “frequency” issue.

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Gateway to Great Sex With Your Husband?

Certainly I am not traipsing on new ground here.

For centuries, authors, counselors and theologians have all dissected the question, “What does it take to get a woman in the mood for sex?”

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5 Ways to Be a Better Lover

1. Let the Word, not the world, be your guide and gauge as to what makes for great sex.

If you want to be a better lover, you have to keep in check the lens through which you look.

All that stuff in the movies and on TV and in music videos, etc. — they call it “make believe” for a reason.

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Do You Have Sexual Blind Spots?

If you bought a ticket for a seat in a new $131 million baseball stadium, you would be fairly confident

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Your Excuses for “No Sex”?

Recently, a reader commented on my post 5 Things You Must Know if You Are Denying Your Husband Sex.

I thought his words were insightful:

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5 Things You MUST Know if You Are Denying Your Husband Sex

Another comment.

From another frustrated husband.

Whose wife has been denying sex to him for years.

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What a Shark Taught Me About Sex

I’m talking about a literal shark.

For those of you who don’t know much about Omaha except that it is in the middle of the country and it has hosted the Men’s College World Series for more than 50 years, you may be surprised to hear that we have one of the best zoos in the country.

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