Category Archives: authentic

Is Anal Sex Permissible in a Christian Marriage?

If ever there was a blog post where I had to lead with some disclaimers, [...]

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Is Your Marriage in Sexual Limbo?

A good friend and I were talking about how we both hate being in limbo. [...]

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3 Small But Powerful Ways to Say I Love You

Sure, who among us doesn’t like grand gestures of love?! And it can be fun [...]

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Sex as You Age: What are Realistic Expectations?

When my husband and I married, we weren’t exactly twentysomethings abounding with energy. I was [...]

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How Is Your Marriage Holding Up in the Pandemic?

I was telling a friend of mine today that I feel like we all—like, collectively [...]

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Do You Celebrate Your Friends When They Shine?

Years ago, I met Leah Hall when she asked me to speak on intimacy in [...]

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Is the Love You Proclaim Incongruent with How You Behave Sexually?

I’ve been thinking lately about incongruency. I’ve been asking myself where my behavior is incongruent [...]

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Finding NEMO: Can Men Have Multiple Orgasms?

We often think of women having multiple orgasms during one sexual encounter. But can men [...]

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My Sex and Car Analogy Is Worth Pondering

I questioned how to write a headline to capture what popped into my head this [...]

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