Is Crappy Sexual Intimacy Your Normal?

Posted on Friday, March 23rd, 2012

We are creatures of habit.

There is a lot — I mean a lot — of truth in that observation.

Sometimes the way we do life or even navigate minuscule daily tasks becomes so woven into our fabric. It’s not until something challenges the circumstances or routine that we get tripped up.

From Sexual Destruction to Godly Freedom: One Woman’s Story

Posted on Wednesday, February 29th, 2012

I am humbly blessed to have Tamara Mapp guest blogging today.

She shares profoundly with such raw transparency about her sexually destructive past — and how God redeemed that brokenness, as well as her marriage, in what seems like insurmountable circumstances.

3 Reasons to Let Your Husband Undress You

Posted on Monday, February 27th, 2012

I was having a conversation with someone recently about how powerful it can be for a wife to allow her husband to undress her before sex.

I realize for some of you, your guard went up when you read the headline. I’ve heard from enough women’s hearts to know there are indeed reasons behind this.

Why You Like the Sex Depicted in Chick Flicks

Posted on Friday, December 30th, 2011

“Was it love… or was it the idea of being in love?”

That is a lyric from the song “One Slip” by Pink Floyd. I had the album back in the day and have essentially forgotten everything on it, with the exception of that one lyric.

Lack of Interest in Sex? What’s the Toll on Your Marriage?

Posted on Thursday, December 29th, 2011

So I just finished reading a submission to the syndicated advice column that appears in our local paper.

Yeah, I read those. It seems like at least a couple times a week they have to do with sex, so obviously I’m interested. Go figure.

Anyway, this particular one was written by a wife who had lost all interest in sex and was tired of going through the motions. She was resigned that her lack of interest was merely the natural course of nature in a woman’s body.

Sex at the In-Laws? Is this a Good Idea?

Posted on Tuesday, November 15th, 2011

Recently a reader asked me if I thought it was appropriate for a married couple to have sex while visiting the in-laws (or any place where they are overnight guests).

This usually is more of an issue for the wife, who now as an adult, finds herself back in her childhood bedroom — with a frisky husband.

What Sex-Starved Husbands Tell Me

Posted on Sunday, October 23rd, 2011

Your husband is not an “animal” for wanting to have sex.

He is not being unreasonably demanding.

And he is not a selfish pig.

3 Reasons You are Easily Offended in Bed

Posted on Thursday, October 20th, 2011

So let me paint a few scenarios. Maybe they will ring familiar:

You and your husband are moving along in foreplay and you notice that he is not becoming aroused.

OR

Little Irritations are Killing Your Sex Life

Posted on Wednesday, October 5th, 2011

So I was cruising through my favorite bloggers and came across this post by Lori Byerly titled Irritations and Peeves with Collars.

Fabulous post by the way.

Could Your Story Offer Hope to Someone Else?

Posted on Tuesday, August 23rd, 2011

The reason I blog about sexual intimacy is because of my own story – and my belief that my story offers hope to others.
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