Sexless Marriage? 10 Questions to Ask Before You Leave

Posted on Tuesday, March 10th, 2015

Are you thinking of leaving your sexless marriage?
You are not alone, even among Christians.
Some of you won’t do it, but the thought still hangs out there.
Should have…  could have…  would have…
… echoes of regret over […]

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Has Your Husband Stopped Initiating Sex?

Posted on Friday, December 5th, 2014

It wasn’t until he stopped initiating that it occurred to her something could be wrong.
And it wasn’t that she was necessarily concerned he was “getting it elsewhere” (although, she knew that wasn’t such a far-fetched possibility, […]

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Being “In the Mood” is a Poor Gauge for Deciding to Have Sex

Posted on Tuesday, October 14th, 2014

Do you wait until you are “in the mood” to have sex?
Are you doing a lot of waiting and very little lovemaking?
Being in the mood to have sex is not the best way to sustain intimacy in […]

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Marriage is Easy. Said No One Ever.

Posted on Friday, October 3rd, 2014

Ok, I have met a few people who think marriage is easy.
But those conversations are rare.  Count-on-one-hand-and-still-have-fingers-left rare.
Most people I meet who are willing to get vulnerable reveal something that tends to be more universal […]

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3 Things Your Husband Wants in Bed

Posted on Tuesday, May 20th, 2014

I realize some husbands are insensitive and walking way outside God’s lines with some of their sexual requests.  And that’s just plain wrong.
So if you are reading this and you’re that guy… stop it. Stop […]

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This Video Could Change Your Marriage

Posted on Wednesday, January 15th, 2014

What jump starts real breakthrough in sexual intimacy struggles?
Sometimes it’s when we hear the vulnerable journey of someone else who has struggled — and moved beyond that place of feeling stuck and hopeless.
That is why I […]

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“I’m Not Physically Attracted to My Husband…”

Posted on Monday, November 25th, 2013

There was a time long ago when you were attracted to your husband, right?
But now?
Not so much.
Occasionally, women will admit this to me. Anonymously. In comments on my blog.
I know that for every one who […]

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Husbands Who Deny Sex and the Wives Who Suffer

Posted on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013

Occasionally, people think I land too much on the side of husbands when it comes to denial of sex.
Many of my posts do indeed encourage wives to be more sexually available and interested.
I do have […]

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A Common Sexual Communication Struggle and What to Do About it

Posted on Tuesday, July 16th, 2013

Can you identify with the below scenario?
Husband really wants sex. Wife realizes this, and either responds to his initiation or initiates on her own. The sexual experience is actually quite good for both of them.
The […]

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What You Need to Know About Your Sexual Fantasies

Posted on Wednesday, January 16th, 2013

Have you ever had a sexual fantasy?

It’s a valid… albeit uncomfortable… question.

Have you ever had a sexual fantasy?

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