Is Your Past Destroying Sex in Your Marriage?

Posted on Wednesday, July 8th, 2015

 
As part of my ongoing guest blog series on things that destroy sex in marriage and what we can do about those things, I today welcome Chris Taylor of The Forgiven Wife.
“Forget the former things; do not […]

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“My Husband Doesn’t Find Me Sexy. Now what?”

Posted on Monday, June 22nd, 2015

Awhile back I received an email from a reader, sharing that her husband doesn’t find her sexy (and has actually said this to her, even though he says he does love her and thinks she […]

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Sexual Struggles in Your Marriage? You May Need To…

Posted on Wednesday, April 1st, 2015

 
If there is one thing I have learned in all the years of speaking and writing about sex, it is that sexual struggles in marriage are often painfully complex.
Or simple.
Sometimes the reasons are painfully simple and easy […]

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Has Sex Faded Out of Your Marriage?

Posted on Monday, March 30th, 2015

 
No one stands at the altar and imagines a day when they stop making love to their spouse.
Some stand at that altar with eager enthusiasm about sex.  Some stand there nervous about it, but still […]

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Sexless Marriage? 10 Questions to Ask Before You Leave

Posted on Tuesday, March 10th, 2015

 
Are you thinking of leaving your sexless marriage?
You are not alone, even among Christians.
Some of you won’t do it, but the thought still hangs out there.
Should have…  could have…  would have…
… echoes of regret over […]

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Has Your Husband Stopped Initiating Sex?

Posted on Friday, December 5th, 2014

 
It wasn’t until he stopped initiating that it occurred to her something could be wrong.
And it wasn’t that she was necessarily concerned he was “getting it elsewhere” (although, she knew that wasn’t such a far-fetched possibility, […]

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Being “In the Mood” is a Poor Gauge for Deciding to Have Sex

Posted on Tuesday, October 14th, 2014

 
Do you wait until you are “in the mood” to have sex?
Are you doing a lot of waiting and very little lovemaking?
Being in the mood to have sex is not the best way to sustain intimacy in […]

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Marriage is Easy. Said No One Ever.

Posted on Friday, October 3rd, 2014

 
Ok, I have met a few people who think marriage is easy.
But those conversations are rare.  Count-on-one-hand-and-still-have-fingers-left rare.
Most people I meet who are willing to get vulnerable reveal something that tends to be more universal […]

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3 Things Your Husband Wants in Bed

Posted on Tuesday, May 20th, 2014

I realize some husbands are insensitive and walking way outside God’s lines with some of their sexual requests.  And that’s just plain wrong.
So if you are reading this and you’re that guy… stop it. Stop […]

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This Video Could Change Your Marriage

Posted on Wednesday, January 15th, 2014

What jump starts real breakthrough in sexual intimacy struggles?
Sometimes it’s when we hear the vulnerable journey of someone else who has struggled — and moved beyond that place of feeling stuck and hopeless.
That is why I […]

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