This Video Could Change Your Marriage

Posted on Wednesday, January 15th, 2014

What jump starts real breakthrough in sexual intimacy struggles?
Sometimes it’s when we hear the vulnerable journey of someone else who has struggled — and moved beyond that place of feeling stuck and hopeless.
That is why I [...]

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“I’m Not Physically Attracted to My Husband…”

Posted on Monday, November 25th, 2013

There was a time long ago when you were attracted to your husband, right?
But now?
Not so much.
Occasionally, women will admit this to me. Anonymously. In comments on my blog.
I know that for every one who [...]

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Husbands Who Deny Sex and the Wives Who Suffer

Posted on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013

Occasionally, people think I land too much on the side of husbands when it comes to denial of sex.
Many of my posts do indeed encourage wives to be more sexually available and interested.
I do have [...]

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A Common Sexual Communication Struggle and What to Do About it

Posted on Tuesday, July 16th, 2013

Can you identify with the below scenario?
Husband really wants sex. Wife realizes this, and either responds to his initiation or initiates on her own. The sexual experience is actually quite good for both of them.
The [...]

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What You Need to Know About Your Sexual Fantasies

Posted on Wednesday, January 16th, 2013

Have you ever had a sexual fantasy?

It’s a valid… albeit uncomfortable… question.

Have you ever had a sexual fantasy?

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“Wish You Could Speak to My Wife Before I Leave”

Posted on Tuesday, January 8th, 2013

Every now and then, I get comments on my site that cut to my core.

A recent one was,”…wish you could speak to my wife before I leave” — written by a man who vulnerably admitted that his wife’s constant sexual refusal has done him in, to the point that leaving seems like the better option.

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Are You Careening Off a Sexual Cliff?

Posted on Tuesday, January 1st, 2013

Are we still teetering on the proverbial fiscal cliff?

Depends on who you ask, I suppose.

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Could This Wife’s Story Be Yours?

Posted on Thursday, November 8th, 2012

I recently received an email from a woman expressing her deep regret about not addressing the sexual intimacy struggles in her marriage sooner.

She has given me permission to share her story, with the hope that it will help other wives realize the deep significance of sexual intimacy in a marriage.

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5 Dangers of Regularly Saying “No” to Sex

Posted on Monday, November 5th, 2012

Is it dangerous to deny your husband sex? I personally believe it can be…

Here are 5 Dangers of Regularly Saying “No” to Sex:

1. You compromise your marriage vows — and possibly your marriage itself.

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Gateway to Great Sex With Your Husband?

Posted on Friday, October 19th, 2012

Certainly I am not traipsing on new ground here.

For centuries, authors, counselors and theologians have all dissected the question, “What does it take to get a woman in the mood for sex?”

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