Posted on Wednesday, April 1st, 2015
If there is one thing I have learned in all the years of speaking and writing about sex, it is that sexual struggles in marriage are often painfully complex.
Sometimes the reasons are painfully simple and easy […]
Posted on Monday, March 30th, 2015
No one stands at the altar and imagines a day when they stop making love to their spouse.
Some stand at that altar with eager enthusiasm about sex. Some stand there nervous about it, but still […]
Posted on Tuesday, March 10th, 2015
Are you thinking of leaving your sexless marriage?
You are not alone, even among Christians.
Some of you won’t do it, but the thought still hangs out there.
Should have… could have… would have…
… echoes of regret over […]
Posted on Friday, December 5th, 2014
It wasn’t until he stopped initiating that it occurred to her something could be wrong.
And it wasn’t that she was necessarily concerned he was “getting it elsewhere” (although, she knew that wasn’t such a far-fetched possibility, […]
Posted on Tuesday, October 14th, 2014
Do you wait until you are “in the mood” to have sex?
Are you doing a lot of waiting and very little lovemaking?
Being in the mood to have sex is not the best way to sustain intimacy in […]
Posted on Friday, October 3rd, 2014
Ok, I have met a few people who think marriage is easy.
But those conversations are rare. Count-on-one-hand-and-still-have-fingers-left rare.
Most people I meet who are willing to get vulnerable reveal something that tends to be more universal […]
Posted on Tuesday, May 20th, 2014
I realize some husbands are insensitive and walking way outside God’s lines with some of their sexual requests. And that’s just plain wrong.
So if you are reading this and you’re that guy… stop it. Stop […]
Posted on Wednesday, January 15th, 2014
What jump starts real breakthrough in sexual intimacy struggles?
Sometimes it’s when we hear the vulnerable journey of someone else who has struggled — and moved beyond that place of feeling stuck and hopeless.
That is why I […]
Posted on Monday, November 25th, 2013
There was a time long ago when you were attracted to your husband, right?
Not so much.
Occasionally, women will admit this to me. Anonymously. In comments on my blog.
I know that for every one who […]
Posted on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013
Occasionally, people think I land too much on the side of husbands when it comes to denial of sex.
Many of my posts do indeed encourage wives to be more sexually available and interested.
I do have […]