Posted on Tuesday, May 20th, 2014
I realize some husbands are insensitive and walking way outside God’s lines with some of their sexual requests. And that’s just plain wrong.
So if you are reading this and you’re that guy… stop it. Stop [...]
Posted on Wednesday, January 15th, 2014
What jump starts real breakthrough in sexual intimacy struggles?
Sometimes it’s when we hear the vulnerable journey of someone else who has struggled — and moved beyond that place of feeling stuck and hopeless.
That is why I [...]
Posted on Monday, November 25th, 2013
There was a time long ago when you were attracted to your husband, right?
Not so much.
Occasionally, women will admit this to me. Anonymously. In comments on my blog.
I know that for every one who [...]
Posted on Wednesday, July 24th, 2013
Occasionally, people think I land too much on the side of husbands when it comes to denial of sex.
Many of my posts do indeed encourage wives to be more sexually available and interested.
I do have [...]
Posted on Tuesday, July 16th, 2013
Can you identify with the below scenario?
Husband really wants sex. Wife realizes this, and either responds to his initiation or initiates on her own. The sexual experience is actually quite good for both of them.
Posted on Wednesday, January 16th, 2013
Have you ever had a sexual fantasy?
It’s a valid… albeit uncomfortable… question.
Have you ever had a sexual fantasy?continue reading
Posted on Tuesday, January 8th, 2013
Every now and then, I get comments on my site that cut to my core.
A recent one was,”…wish you could speak to my wife before I leave” — written by a man who vulnerably admitted that his wife’s constant sexual refusal has done him in, to the point that leaving seems like the better option.continue reading
Posted on Tuesday, January 1st, 2013
Are we still teetering on the proverbial fiscal cliff?
Depends on who you ask, I suppose.continue reading
Posted on Thursday, November 8th, 2012
I recently received an email from a woman expressing her deep regret about not addressing the sexual intimacy struggles in her marriage sooner.
She has given me permission to share her story, with the hope that it will help other wives realize the deep significance of sexual intimacy in a marriage.continue reading