What You Must Know About Sexual Bonding

Posted on Thursday, January 26th, 2012

Journey with me a moment here.

There is a line of thinking that has ravaged our understanding of God’s gift of sex. And as Christian wives, I cannot believe we’ve allowed it to perpetuate with so much devastation.

Is It Reasonable to Say “No” to Oral Sex?

Posted on Saturday, December 31st, 2011

Years ago, a friend and I were talking in general about sex. In the course of our conversation, the topic of oral sex came up.

I casually mentioned, “What’s not to like about oral sex?”

“Giving or receiving?” she asked.

3 Ways to Get in the Mood For Sex

Posted on Saturday, October 15th, 2011

I am not always in the mood for sex.

(I can you hear you gasping from here. My reputation must proceed me.)

But hey, I admit it, there are moments — albeit, they are extremely rare — when my senses are somewhat dulled to the idea of sex.

The Altar of Indifference: Are You Sacrificing Your Sexual Intimacy?

Posted on Monday, July 11th, 2011

I’m so glad Jim and Carrie Gordon of The Intimate Couple are adding their insights to my “altar” series. Their below post is a perfect follow up to my post the other day about unintentionally killing your sexual intimacy.

Have you become indifferent to sex in your marriage? If that seems like no big deal to you, listen closely to the Gordons’ wisdom on ways you can go from being indifferent to intentional when it comes to nurturing sexual intimacy.

The Altar of Tiredness: Are You Sacrificing Your Sexual Intimacy?

Posted on Saturday, June 18th, 2011

This is Part 4 of our series “What Altars Are You Sacrificing Your Sexual Intimacy On?”

If you feel too tired for sex, listen in to what Paul Byerly has to say in today’s post. Paul and his wife Lori are such strong advocates for nurtured sexual intimacy in marriage. I’m fortunate to have them part of this series.

You’re dead tired, and he wants sex. Why would a man ask for sex when his wife is so tired she’s likely to fall asleep before he’s done? Is that reasonable?

Altar of Ideal Conditions: Are You Sacrificing Your Sexual Intimacy?

Posted on Monday, June 6th, 2011

This is Part 2 of our series “What Altars Are You Sacrificing Your Sexual Intimacy On?” A big shout out to Lori Lowe of Life Gems 4 Marriage for shedding more light on the problem of waiting for “ideal conditions” to nurture sexual intimacy in your marriage!

Would You Marry a Former Porn Star?

Posted on Thursday, May 12th, 2011

Crissy Moran. I’m guessing you’ve never heard of her. Do me a favor — don’t google her name. I’m going to tell you what you really need to know about this woman and her amazing story of redemption.

5 Reasons I Like Sex: Confessions From a Christian Wife

Posted on Tuesday, May 10th, 2011

As a Christian wife, I do like sex. To some of you reading this, such a proclamation makes me either an annoying freak or a bewildering mystery. Can you here the theologians murmuring… “Hmmm… We were busy studying discipleship when we stumbled across something that rarely is found in its natural habitat. A Christian wife. Who likes sex. Fascinatin

3 Ways To Turn Around a Sexual Slump

Posted on Saturday, April 16th, 2011

Recently I received an email from a reader who was in a bit of a sexual slump in her marriage. She was wondering if she should wait until she felt like having sex before trying to turn the trend around — or should she simply have sex with her husband and hope the feeling of desire would catch up to the action.

3 Things You Should Know About Your Husband’s Penis

Posted on Saturday, January 22nd, 2011

So, anyway, I was cruising through my email in-box the other day, mindlessly deleting all the spam for penis enlargement pills, when it occurred to me that this obsession with penis size is just plain ridiculous.