Category Archives: sexual struggles

20 Years Ago Today My Husband Left Me

It’s been 20 years ago today. Twenty years ago my first husband left me. I [...]

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Virus Crisis and Navigating Intimacy in an Already Fragile Marriage

As we swim in unchartered waters with this COVID-19 pandemic, is the stress of being [...]

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It’s All in Your Head: Feeling Sexy No Matter Your Hair Color

I was thinking recently about the first time several years ago I noticed a gray [...]

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Sex and Body Image. Making Peace with Imperfection.

My right breast sags a bit more than my left one. My complexion isn’t all [...]

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Are you Longing for a Time in Your Past?

A good friend and I were talking about how alluring it is to glamorize a [...]

Writing for the Rule Rather than the Exception. This is What Sex Bloggers Do.

Occasionally, I hear from someone who is frustrated that something I’ve written won’t work in their marriage. [...]

Moving Beyond Your Fear of Having an Orgasm

This post will resonate more with wives than husbands. I’m not saying there aren’t men [...]

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When an Unexpected Crisis Causes Your Healthy Sexual Intimacy to Take a Dive

What do you do when healthy sexual intimacy in your marriage takes a dive because [...]

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3 Powerful Ways to Reclaim Your Sexual Story as a Married Couple

I have spent years encouraging married couples to write a healthy and positive sexual story [...]