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Most Creative, Lame or Hurtful Excuses for Denying Sex?

sexual-denial-excusesIt’s a question. I’m genuinely asking.

What are the most creative, lame or hurtful excuses for sexual denial you’ve either given or received in your marriage?

I thought it would be interesting to collect some of these excuses in one spot. Mind you, I’m not making light of sexual denial (simply read my post Do You Deny Your Spouse Sex? 3 Questions to Ask Yourself to see how serious I am about the topic.)

I hear from many people whose marriages have been a place of ongoing sexual denial for no justifiable reason. It got me thinking, “Hmmm. I wonder what some of the specific excuses have been?”

Want to share an excuse you’ve either given or received? (Yes, I know. I will probably receive more that have been received than given, but I thought I would cast with a wide net).

The good news is you can do it anonymously. Simply comment on this post with the excuse. You don’t have to use your real name or real email address. BUT I do moderate comments to keep SPAM from filling up my comment sections on posts, so if you don’t see your comment right away, be patient. I’ll approve comments quickly so they appear. Please refrain from using profanity.

Down the road, I will do a follow up post listing all the creative, lame and hurtful excuses.

For more reading, you can cruise through my list of past posts, as well as my page with a bunch of posts on orgasm.

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April 29th, 2020 by