Category Archives: sexual struggles
Is the Love You Proclaim Incongruent with How You Behave Sexually?
I’ve been thinking lately about incongruency. I’ve been asking myself where my behavior is incongruent [...]
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Nov
When You’re Not Attracted to Your Spouse’s Naked Body
I’ve heard this go both ways. A husband thinks his wife is attractive with clothes [...]
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Nov
Who Can You Talk to About Sexual Struggles in Your Marriage?
As someone who speaks and writes about sex, I tend to be quite comfortable talking [...]
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Nov
Do You Have a Bias Toward Action in Improving Your Marriage?
I’ve been reading the book “Everything is Figureoutable” by Marie Forleo. It is full of [...]
Nov
When Your Spouse Initiates Sex, What’s Your Gut Reaction?
At its simplest core, sexual initiation in marriage should be a given, right? God wove [...]
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Nov
Life, Marriage and Intimacy Will Always Have Some Risk
I’ve been contemplating some changes in some tech tools I use to run my business. [...]
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Oct
Are You Your Own Worst Enemy When It Comes to Sex?
Yes, I know. Your spouse may be the one who is sabotaging sex in your marriage. Certainly, [...]
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Oct
Thinking of Former Lovers When You Have Sex With Your Spouse?
If you had sex with someone else (or multiple people) before you and your spouse [...]
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Oct
Do You Always Expect Your Spouse to Read Your Mind Regarding Sex?
This seems a bit counterintuitive. But bear with me. In marriage, we do spend quite [...]
Oct
