The Altar of Indifference: Are You Sacrificing Your Sexual Intimacy?

Posted on Monday, July 11th, 2011

I’m so glad Jim and Carrie Gordon of The Intimate Couple are adding their insights to my “altar” series. Their below post is a perfect follow up to my post the other day about unintentionally killing your sexual intimacy.

Have you become indifferent to sex in your marriage? If that seems like no big deal to you, listen closely to the Gordons’ wisdom on ways you can go from being indifferent to intentional when it comes to nurturing sexual intimacy.

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The Altar of Seriousness: Are You Sacrificing Your Sexual Intimacy?

Posted on Sunday, July 3rd, 2011

Sex can be a lot of fun!

That’s why I’m thrilled Mrs. Hot Holy Humorous has decided to chime in on my “altar” series. Truth be told, a lot of couples are just so serious when it comes to sex. Instead of enjoying the playful and recreational aspects of sex, they go through the motions and zap any hint of fun right out of it.

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The Altar of Tiredness: Are You Sacrificing Your Sexual Intimacy?

Posted on Saturday, June 18th, 2011

This is Part 4 of our series “What Altars Are You Sacrificing Your Sexual Intimacy On?”

If you feel too tired for sex, listen in to what Paul Byerly has to say in today’s post. Paul and his wife Lori are such strong advocates for nurtured sexual intimacy in marriage. I’m fortunate to have them part of this series.

You’re dead tired, and he wants sex. Why would a man ask for sex when his wife is so tired she’s likely to fall asleep before he’s done? Is that reasonable?

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