Purpose of Orgasm? You Tell Me.

Posted on Tuesday, March 20th, 2012

What do you think is the purpose of orgasm?

I was pondering this as I was watching the March 19 episode of Nightline, where they did a segment on female orgasm.

Your Orgasm Is Your Responsibility (Mostly)

Posted on Tuesday, July 12th, 2011

Hollywood has screwed us up when it comes to sexual expectations.

First, we expect that great sex is always going to happen in the missionary position. Second, we think the man arrives with a wealth of accurate sexual knowledge about the female body.

(Look at me – I just wrote a love scene for the next romantic comedy blockbuster.)

“Oh God” and Other Things We Say During Sex

Posted on Thursday, June 30th, 2011

Years ago I was having lunch with my sister-in-law and my mom. In all seriousness, I asked, “What do you think is the hardest part of parenting?”

Without skipping a beat, my sister-in-law said, “Quiet sex.”

All three of us erupted in laughter at her comment, which obviously referenced the lengths some parents go to in keeping their sexual intimacy under wraps. Honestly, I still chuckle a bit when I think of her statement.

The Altar of No Pleasure: Are You Sacrificing Your Sexual Intimacy?

Posted on Monday, June 27th, 2011

Today in our on-going “altar” series, we have author and speaker Sheila Gregoire digging into another altar — Lack of Pleasure. Is sex not pleasurable for you? Instead of figuring that out, you just assume not do it at all?

Well, glean from Sheila’s wisdom on this topic that could compel you to pull your sexual intimacy off this “altar.”

Ever notice how everybody in the whole wide world absolutely loves sex?

The Truth About Your Orgasm

Posted on Thursday, May 26th, 2011

I used to always think that when I finally meandered into Heaven, I would make a beeline for God to clear up all my unanswered questions.

3 Things You Should Know About Your Husband’s Penis

Posted on Saturday, January 22nd, 2011

So, anyway, I was cruising through my email in-box the other day, mindlessly deleting all the spam for penis enlargement pills, when it occurred to me that this obsession with penis size is just plain ridiculous.

5 Reasons “Faking It” Is Hurting Your Relationship

Posted on Thursday, January 6th, 2011

Who can possibly forget the restuarant scene in the 1989 movie When Harry Met Sally? If the link I just gave you doesn’t work, search “Best Fake Orgasm Ever” on YouTube. I’m old enough to have seen this movie in the theatre and can still remember it vividly in regard to sexual intimacy. Not bad for a scene where everyone has their clothes on.

3 Reasons Your Husband Likes It When You Climax

Posted on Thursday, December 23rd, 2010

A recent email from a male reader drew my attention to something that may be off the radar of many wives. Husbands — at least most and definitely the unselfish ones — truly enjoy it when their wives have an orgasm.

Some Orgasms You Have to Work Very Hard For

Posted on Tuesday, November 9th, 2010

Not all orgasms come easy. No pun intended. I’m being serious here, because one of the most common frustrations I hear from women — one of the primary reasons they don’t enjoy sex — is that they are not climaxing.

Does a Wife’s Orgasm Even Matter?

Posted on Thursday, September 23rd, 2010

Here’s a question regarding sexual intimacy: Is a wife’s orgasm even important? Or, maybe I should ask, is it at least as important as a husband’s orgasm?