Walked In On During Sex? Here’s What You Do.

Posted on Tuesday, November 8th, 2011

I’m talking about your kids walking in on you.

During sex.

Because if you’re walked in on by your in-laws who are visiting or your son’s college roommate who came home with him for Thanksgiving, well… they all need a refresher course in Boundaries 101.

What Sex-Starved Husbands Tell Me

Posted on Sunday, October 23rd, 2011

Your husband is not an “animal” for wanting to have sex.

He is not being unreasonably demanding.

And he is not a selfish pig.

3 Reasons You are Easily Offended in Bed

Posted on Thursday, October 20th, 2011

So let me paint a few scenarios. Maybe they will ring familiar:

You and your husband are moving along in foreplay and you notice that he is not becoming aroused.

OR

More Masturbation Talk. From a Couple of Wives.

Posted on Wednesday, October 19th, 2011

If you stopped by on Monday, you discovered that my fellow blogger friend, Mrs. Hot Holy Humorous, and I are trying to get our hands around this masturbation topic.

(You gotta cut me some slack with that last sentence. I’m a writer for goodness sakes. Clever word play is my own sad pathetic form of entertainment. I kid you not).

Better Health Leads to Better Sex? Likely!

Posted on Monday, October 17th, 2011

Remember when you were 18 and you didn’t give a second thought to being healthy and staying healthy?

(Okay, maybe that doesn’t describe you, but it sure describes me.)

Two Wives. Talking About Masturbation.

Posted on Sunday, October 16th, 2011

Yes, I’m going to go there.

I’m going to talk about masturbation.

Not because I’m in a bit of a drought when it comes to hate mail, but because it is a valid issue worth discussing with regard to sexual intimacy in marriage.

3 Ways to Get in the Mood For Sex

Posted on Saturday, October 15th, 2011

I am not always in the mood for sex.

(I can you hear you gasping from here. My reputation must proceed me.)

But hey, I admit it, there are moments — albeit, they are extremely rare — when my senses are somewhat dulled to the idea of sex.

Happy Husbands Come From Wives Who Put Out

Posted on Thursday, October 13th, 2011

What?!

I didn’t just write that in the headline, did I?

Do happy husbands come from wives who put out?

“Whoa, Nellie.” I can feel the glares, especially from some of you wives reading this. But please don’t board the “I’m so offended” train just yet.

Want a Marla Taviano Book? For Free?

Posted on Monday, October 10th, 2011

Author and speaker Marla Taviano recently sent me copies of two of her books:

From Blushing Bride to Wedded Wife: Practical Advice from a Girlfriend — What Marriage is Really Like

Is That All He Thinks About: How to Enjoy Great Sex With Your Husband

And now I want to give them away (because they rock!)

Giving My Body to My Wife — One Husband’s Story

Posted on Friday, October 7th, 2011

Not long ago, I asked for readers’ stories with regard to struggles in sexual intimacy and how couples have found a path to healing.

Today’s story comes from a reader named Bob. I appreciate his vulnerability and transparency. It takes courage to share so openly. With that in mind, please read with a compassionate heart. Possibly you’ll see glimpses of your own marriage in his story.

Be sure to read all the way through, as Bob shares a powerful declaration he sent to his wife.