Birth Control. Sheila Gregoire. And a Conversation You Don’t Want to Miss.
Posted on Wednesday, November 9th, 2011
Lately I’ve been a little self-absorbed.
See, I have a broken finger (long story) with some slight tendon damage thrown in as well.
Saving grace is it is on my non-dominant hand. Still annoying though.
See what I mean? I’m self-absorbed.
So imagine my relief when I still managed to stumble upon this phenomenal conversation Sheila Gregoire generated on her blog about birth control.
continue readingWhat Sex-Starved Husbands Tell Me
Posted on Sunday, October 23rd, 2011
Your husband is not an “animal” for wanting to have sex.
He is not being unreasonably demanding.
And he is not a selfish pig.
continue reading3 Reasons You are Easily Offended in Bed
Posted on Thursday, October 20th, 2011
So let me paint a few scenarios. Maybe they will ring familiar:
You and your husband are moving along in foreplay and you notice that he is not becoming aroused.
OR
continue reading3 Ways to Get in the Mood For Sex
Posted on Saturday, October 15th, 2011
I am not always in the mood for sex.
(I can you hear you gasping from here. My reputation must proceed me.)
But hey, I admit it, there are moments — albeit, they are extremely rare — when my senses are somewhat dulled to the idea of sex.
continue readingHappy Husbands Come From Wives Who Put Out
Posted on Thursday, October 13th, 2011
What?!
I didn’t just write that in the headline, did I?
Do happy husbands come from wives who put out?
“Whoa, Nellie.” I can feel the glares, especially from some of you wives reading this. But please don’t board the “I’m so offended” train just yet.
continue readingGiving My Body to My Wife — One Husband’s Story
Posted on Friday, October 7th, 2011
Not long ago, I asked for readers’ stories with regard to struggles in sexual intimacy and how couples have found a path to healing.
Today’s story comes from a reader named Bob. I appreciate his vulnerability and transparency. It takes courage to share so openly. With that in mind, please read with a compassionate heart. Possibly you’ll see glimpses of your own marriage in his story.
Be sure to read all the way through, as Bob shares a powerful declaration he sent to his wife.
continue readingLittle Irritations are Killing Your Sex Life
Posted on Wednesday, October 5th, 2011
So I was cruising through my favorite bloggers and came across this post by Lori Byerly titled Irritations and Peeves with Collars.
Fabulous post by the way.
continue readingLather, Rinse, Repeat? A Follow Up Post on the “Golden Shower”
Posted on Wednesday, September 28th, 2011
Let me just say, I had no idea that one post would generate so much dialogue.
In the post What If My Husband Wants to Do Something Sexually That I Find Degrading, I wrote about the sexual act referred to as a “golden shower” or “golden bath.”
continue readingCreative Sex? Give These 3 Ideas a Try
Posted on Wednesday, September 14th, 2011
My husband and I recently went on a date.
Our dates always include food, because… well… in my husband’s mind, it’s not a date unless food is involved.
(That must be a guy thing, although I don’t [...]
Will You Be There? I’m Speaking Sept. 24
Posted on Sunday, September 4th, 2011
Good news!!
If you are a married or engaged woman in the Omaha/Lincoln area or surrounding communities, please consider attending my upcoming talk on sexual intimacy in marriage.
I also would love to have any women’s ministry [...]
