Crappy Marriage? What if it Doesn’t Get Better?

Posted on Tuesday, May 8th, 2012

I start this post not with a story about marriage, but with a vulnerable story about parenting.

I do have a point about marriage, though, so hang in there with me.

I’ve felt humbled lately. And by lately, I mean the past three years.

Fifty Shades of Great Sex with Your Husband

Posted on Monday, April 30th, 2012

The book Fifty Shades of Grey is climbing the publishing charts, further propelling the phenomenon of erotica gone mainstream.

I should start with the disclaimer that I have not read the book.

Don’t need to.

Have no desire to.

Fabulous Marriage? No Better Time than Now

Posted on Friday, March 30th, 2012

There really is no better time in history than right now to have a fabulous marriage.

What?!!! Have I lost my mind?!

I can hear many of you now…

3 Ways to Improve Your Boring Sex Life

Posted on Thursday, March 29th, 2012

Okay, I should start by saying I’m not too crazy about the phrase “sex life” …

…because really, don’t we just have one life with a lot of moving parts?

I’m a woman, so I don’t have all those little boxes in my head where I can compartmentalize the intricate details of my life. To me, everything is connected, and the phrase “sex life” sounds like it is camping out in its own little box. Which it isn’t.

Is Crappy Sexual Intimacy Your Normal?

Posted on Friday, March 23rd, 2012

We are creatures of habit.

There is a lot — I mean a lot — of truth in that observation.

Sometimes the way we do life or even navigate minuscule daily tasks becomes so woven into our fabric. It’s not until something challenges the circumstances or routine that we get tripped up.

Purpose of Orgasm? You Tell Me.

Posted on Tuesday, March 20th, 2012

What do you think is the purpose of orgasm?

I was pondering this as I was watching the March 19 episode of Nightline, where they did a segment on female orgasm.

Do Good Girls Have the Best Sex?!

Posted on Monday, March 12th, 2012

Yes! Good girls do have the best sex.

Want to know more?

Invest in yourself and your marriage and snag a copy of Sheila Wray Gregoire’s new book, The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex

3 Reasons You Should Pursue Your Husband Sexually

Posted on Saturday, March 10th, 2012

In my post, Pursue Me Sexually, Dear Husband, I shared how much I appreciate that my husband expresses his desire for me.

Some of the comments I received, though, emphasized that pursuit is a two-way street and that wives also need to pursue.

From Sexual Destruction to Godly Freedom: One Woman’s Story

Posted on Wednesday, February 29th, 2012

I am humbly blessed to have Tamara Mapp guest blogging today.

She shares profoundly with such raw transparency about her sexually destructive past — and how God redeemed that brokenness, as well as her marriage, in what seems like insurmountable circumstances.

4 Confessions from a Sex Blogger

Posted on Wednesday, February 22nd, 2012

They may not be “confessions” so much as they are simply a revelation about me as someone who blogs about sexual intimacy in marriage.

If you follow my blog or even if this is your first time here, these are 4 things I really want you to know.