The Altar of Seriousness: Are You Sacrificing Your Sexual Intimacy?

Posted on Sunday, July 3rd, 2011

Sex can be a lot of fun!

That’s why I’m thrilled Mrs. Hot Holy Humorous has decided to chime in on my “altar” series. Truth be told, a lot of couples are just so serious when it comes to sex. Instead of enjoying the playful and recreational aspects of sex, they go through the motions and zap any hint of fun right out of it.

PART TWO: The 10 Worst Mistakes You Can Make When Talking To Your Kids About Sex

Posted on Friday, May 6th, 2011

Occasionally, I suck at being a parent. Okay, not just occasionally, but that’s really not material to my point.

PART ONE: The 10 Worst Mistakes You Can Make When Talking To Your Kids About Sex

Posted on Tuesday, May 3rd, 2011

There are just some things you can’t possibly know when you hold your first newborn child.

Does Your Husband Want the Girlfriend Treatment? Will You Give it to Him?

Posted on Monday, April 18th, 2011

My beloved shared with me the other day that one of the guys at work was joking around about wishing he could get “the girlfriend treatment” from his wife.

What to Say to Your Husband During Sex

Posted on Thursday, March 24th, 2011

Occasionally, I am contacted by people interested in writing a guest post for my site. While I don’t run all of these, I do value throwing a different voice out here once in awhile. So today we have a guest post from Lisa Shoreland, who is a resident blogger for the site Go College. It isn’t a site that really has anything to do with marriage, but I think she makes some valid points on what to say to your husband during sex…

How Much Time Does Sex Really Take, Anyway?

Posted on Monday, March 7th, 2011

So, my husband was off work the other day. After we meandered through mundane errands, we found ourselves with a small window of opportunity before having to pick up the kids from school. By small, I mean 15 minutes. We made the most of it, if you know what I mean.

Why Special Occasion Sex Isn’t Enough

Posted on Monday, February 14th, 2011

Ahhh. Valentine’s Day. The day of love, right? For some married couples, it’s one of the few times of the year they will have sex. Do you see that dynamic playing itself out with your husband?

5 Reasons “Faking It” Is Hurting Your Relationship

Posted on Thursday, January 6th, 2011

Who can possibly forget the restuarant scene in the 1989 movie When Harry Met Sally? If the link I just gave you doesn’t work, search “Best Fake Orgasm Ever” on YouTube. I’m old enough to have seen this movie in the theatre and can still remember it vividly in regard to sexual intimacy. Not bad for a scene where everyone has their clothes on.

Does this Blog Make Me Look Hot?

Posted on Monday, January 3rd, 2011

Ahh. A new year. When you think of sexual intimacy in your marriage in the upcoming year, what emotions stir within you? Anticipation? Excitement? Dread? Are you wanting things to look different — maybe even better?

3 Reasons Your Husband Likes It When You Climax

Posted on Thursday, December 23rd, 2010

A recent email from a male reader drew my attention to something that may be off the radar of many wives. Husbands — at least most and definitely the unselfish ones — truly enjoy it when their wives have an orgasm.