Hey Guys — Want to Get Lucky?

Posted on Friday, April 22nd, 2011

This is for all my readers who are husbands (I hear from quite a few of you, so I know you’re out there!) Are you looking to enjoy more sex with your wife?

Does Your Husband Want the Girlfriend Treatment? Will You Give it to Him?

Posted on Monday, April 18th, 2011

My beloved shared with me the other day that one of the guys at work was joking around about wishing he could get “the girlfriend treatment” from his wife.

Can Sexual Tension Be a Good Thing?

Posted on Tuesday, February 8th, 2011

My husband is an avid gardener and grows quite a few varieties of peppers. Last year, for the first time he grew Tabasco peppers, which are tiny, but obviously (as the name implies), very hot. At the end of the season, we dried some of them and recently I ground them into a powder for seasoning.

Sexual tension is a lot like that Tabasco powder. A little bit can bring amazing flavor and “wow!” Too much and everything is ruined… even painful.

Sexual Intimacy, Miss Abigail and a Night Out on the Town

Posted on Tuesday, December 21st, 2010

Some interesting things happen when you blog about sex. The obvious one is I get more offers than I can count to buy Viagra through discreet off-shore “pharmacies.”

Friends With Benefits: Sexual Intimacy in Your Marriage

Posted on Friday, December 17th, 2010

After my husband drives my vehicle, he rarely returns the seat to the position I need it. And truth be told, I am not all that great at loading the dishwasher (I really do suck at it). Yeah, we sometimes get on each other’s nerves. And years ago, this got me thinking, “Can too much communication ever be a bad thing in a marriage?”

Enough With the Double Standards Regarding Oral Sex

Posted on Friday, December 3rd, 2010

As anyone who has followed my blog will know, I am a big proponent of married couples nurturing their sexual intimacy. I’ve written about oral sex before, simply because it is indeed a source of contention within many marriages (maybe even more so among Christian married couples).

What if the Last Time You Made Love was Truly the Last Time?

Posted on Tuesday, November 30th, 2010

I apologize for my recent hiatus in blogging. My grandmother, who was almost 93, recently died, so I was a bit consumed with the emotional journey, as well as logistical details of making arrangements, writing a eulogy, etc.

Some Orgasms You Have to Work Very Hard For

Posted on Tuesday, November 9th, 2010

Not all orgasms come easy. No pun intended. I’m being serious here, because one of the most common frustrations I hear from women — one of the primary reasons they don’t enjoy sex — is that they are not climaxing.

I’ve Been Sleeping On the Couch

Posted on Friday, October 22nd, 2010

It’s true. I have been sleeping on the couch. It’s not what you think though. Yes, my Beloved and I do get on each other’s nerves. He angers me at times. I anger him. We are normal, I’m convinced. But none of all that is why I’m sleeping on the couch.

Wives Who Want More Sex. And Aren’t Getting It.

Posted on Monday, October 4th, 2010

Are you a wife who wants sex more than your husband? This can feel so isolating. Not only are you not getting your sexual intimacy and emotional desires met, you also may feel incredibly alone among most or all of your women friends. Their husbands, it seems, want sex all the time, right?