Sexual Intimacy: My Love Letter to Pornographers

Posted on Thursday, January 13th, 2011

Obviously, my point with this post will be clear as you read between the lines. Just in case you think I’ve lost my mind, don’t bail on me. You will be glad you read all the way to the end.

5 Reasons “Faking It” Is Hurting Your Relationship

Posted on Thursday, January 6th, 2011

Who can possibly forget the restuarant scene in the 1989 movie When Harry Met Sally? If the link I just gave you doesn’t work, search “Best Fake Orgasm Ever” on YouTube. I’m old enough to have seen this movie in the theatre and can still remember it vividly in regard to sexual intimacy. Not bad for a scene where everyone has their clothes on.

Does this Blog Make Me Look Hot?

Posted on Monday, January 3rd, 2011

Ahh. A new year. When you think of sexual intimacy in your marriage in the upcoming year, what emotions stir within you? Anticipation? Excitement? Dread? Are you wanting things to look different — maybe even better?

3 Reasons Your Husband Likes It When You Climax

Posted on Thursday, December 23rd, 2010

A recent email from a male reader drew my attention to something that may be off the radar of many wives. Husbands — at least most and definitely the unselfish ones — truly enjoy it when their wives have an orgasm.

Sexual Intimacy, Miss Abigail and a Night Out on the Town

Posted on Tuesday, December 21st, 2010

Some interesting things happen when you blog about sex. The obvious one is I get more offers than I can count to buy Viagra through discreet off-shore “pharmacies.”

Friends With Benefits: Sexual Intimacy in Your Marriage

Posted on Friday, December 17th, 2010

After my husband drives my vehicle, he rarely returns the seat to the position I need it. And truth be told, I am not all that great at loading the dishwasher (I really do suck at it). Yeah, we sometimes get on each other’s nerves. And years ago, this got me thinking, “Can too much communication ever be a bad thing in a marriage?”

An Important Follow Up on the Oral Sex Post

Posted on Monday, December 6th, 2010

The other day, I ran a post titled Enough With the Double Standards Regarding Oral Sex. Comments I received on that post from Paul (of The Generous Husband fame) and Lusanda shed light on a very valid point:

Enough With the Double Standards Regarding Oral Sex

Posted on Friday, December 3rd, 2010

As anyone who has followed my blog will know, I am a big proponent of married couples nurturing their sexual intimacy. I’ve written about oral sex before, simply because it is indeed a source of contention within many marriages (maybe even more so among Christian married couples).

Miscellaneous Sexy Stuff

Posted on Friday, November 12th, 2010

Awhile back, I mentioned that blogging about sexual intimacy in marriage is not the easiest trek. The further I venture down this road, though, the more encouraged I am to meet other bloggers committed to the sanctity of marriage.

So, this is my miscellaneous sexy stuff post… just pointing out a few resources you really should check it.

Some Orgasms You Have to Work Very Hard For

Posted on Tuesday, November 9th, 2010

Not all orgasms come easy. No pun intended. I’m being serious here, because one of the most common frustrations I hear from women — one of the primary reasons they don’t enjoy sex — is that they are not climaxing.