Comments on: Are You Punishing Yourself or Your Spouse for Past Promiscuity? http://intimacyinmarriage.com/2010/06/01/are-you-punishing-yourself-or-your-spouse-for-past-promiscuity/ Encouraging Christian Women toward Healthy Sexual Intimacy Sun, 05 Feb 2012 05:27:59 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.4 By: The Truth About Your Orgasm | Intimacy in Marriage http://intimacyinmarriage.com/2010/06/01/are-you-punishing-yourself-or-your-spouse-for-past-promiscuity/comment-page-1/#comment-3990 The Truth About Your Orgasm | Intimacy in Marriage Fri, 27 May 2011 01:34:27 +0000 http://intimacyinmarriage.com/?p=374#comment-3990 [...] a husband and a wife.  If you are paralyzed by modesty, trapped in some sort of skewed theology, haunted by past sexual promiscuity, unwilling to heal from past pain, or just plain doubtful of God’s desire that you enjoy sex, [...] [...] a husband and a wife.  If you are paralyzed by modesty, trapped in some sort of skewed theology, haunted by past sexual promiscuity, unwilling to heal from past pain, or just plain doubtful of God’s desire that you enjoy sex, [...]

]]> By: JulieSibert http://intimacyinmarriage.com/2010/06/01/are-you-punishing-yourself-or-your-spouse-for-past-promiscuity/comment-page-1/#comment-307 JulieSibert Thu, 10 Jun 2010 04:02:00 +0000 http://intimacyinmarriage.com/?p=374#comment-307 Thank you Victoria for your honest comment. I in no way want to make light of the pain you have experienced. What has helped you cope and find healing, if anything? Do you have hope that things can look different than they look right now? Thank you Victoria for your honest comment. I in no way want to make light of the pain you have experienced. What has helped you cope and find healing, if anything? Do you have hope that things can look different than they look right now?

]]> By: Victoria http://intimacyinmarriage.com/2010/06/01/are-you-punishing-yourself-or-your-spouse-for-past-promiscuity/comment-page-1/#comment-306 Victoria Wed, 09 Jun 2010 20:10:07 +0000 http://intimacyinmarriage.com/?p=374#comment-306 Yes, I feel betrayed and loved less because of past unfaithful act by my spouse. I am not enjoying sexual experience because, there is no show of affection before the actual act. Yes, I feel betrayed and loved less because of past unfaithful act by my spouse.
I am not enjoying sexual experience because, there is no show of affection before the actual act.

]]> By: Ministry should not kill marriages http://intimacyinmarriage.com/2010/06/01/are-you-punishing-yourself-or-your-spouse-for-past-promiscuity/comment-page-1/#comment-297 Ministry should not kill marriages Sun, 06 Jun 2010 20:04:56 +0000 http://intimacyinmarriage.com/?p=374#comment-297 [...] Are You Punishing Yourself or Your Spouse for Past Promiscuity?: A follow up post by Julie of Intimacy in Marriage. Are you guilty of this? [...] [...] Are You Punishing Yourself or Your Spouse for Past Promiscuity?: A follow up post by Julie of Intimacy in Marriage. Are you guilty of this? [...]

]]> By: Paul Byerly http://intimacyinmarriage.com/2010/06/01/are-you-punishing-yourself-or-your-spouse-for-past-promiscuity/comment-page-1/#comment-296 Paul Byerly Sat, 05 Jun 2010 23:12:51 +0000 http://intimacyinmarriage.com/?p=374#comment-296 Julie, I thought I had commented on this, but it seems I did not. You have great thoughts on this, thanks. As with many things, I see a double standard on this one - men and women both tend to punish HER for past sex more than they punish HIM. Of course he suffers any time she is punished sexually, which makes it rather bizarre that men punish their bride for what she did before she even knew them. Paul Julie,

I thought I had commented on this, but it seems I did not. You have great thoughts on this, thanks.

As with many things, I see a double standard on this one – men and women both tend to punish HER for past sex more than they punish HIM. Of course he suffers any time she is punished sexually, which makes it rather bizarre that men punish their bride for what she did before she even knew them.

Paul

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